ACHTUNG, DAMMIT
"Let's leave Heidi's current situation out of this. I really think it's unkind."

Indeed.

Heidi's brother-in-law died before this story started being posted. If the "ooh, isn't that convenient" attitude about Heidi's silence raises its head again from the anonymouse gallery, off goes the anon commenting.

Yes, commenting is off. This is because only stupid people would argue that such insinuations should be allowed, and I'm indulging my fantasy that stupid people don't read my comms.