Fandom Lounge's Journal - Day

4:16PM - Just...gobsmacked

I think this is the right place for this, it's not wank (and I can't link anyway), it's not a rant, it's more a wtf? about something in fandom. If it's not the right place, my apologies.

So I was checking my email yesterday and noticed a post on one of my lists labelled "for the easily squicked" or something of that nature (not word for word as it's on my home computer). So I read it, curious. It turned out to be a very huge, specific warning for...implied rimming.

My mouth's still hanging open. I admit to being, er, quite fond */understatement* of rimming, but I honestly would never, ever think of a warning if it was explicit, let alone implied. I would no more warn for rimming than I'd warn for cunnilingus or penetration or a blow job.

I'm wondering, though, are there people out there who are that squicked by rimming? I can think of many more sex activities I find much more likely to be squicky, personally, but I'm hardly the one to ask about finding rimming squicky. I even write it in het ;) though I have found I much prefer the guy being rimmed even there.