Your thoughts on yaoi. What are they?

No, seriously.

I run a panel at my local con about yaoi, not being a yaoi fan brat, being realistic about it, etc. Last years panels ran generally on the ideas in this essay to give you an idea. Pretty much regardless of if you like or dislike yaoi, I'd like to know in an in depth yaoi discussion what you'd wanna see brought up.

Also, if you have any resources for writing/rping/general knowledge in that area that I could give out links to, it'd be appreciated. Like, for example, I told everyone to go read some real gay fiction and erotica if they wanted realism, but I didn't have any links on hand for good examples, because all mine are actual books.