Could I BE any more wronged?
Thanks to the mousie on wank_report for this.

boy_ish has been on F_W before as thetrainsinkaos but I'll be damned if I can find her wanks.

Background: Way back in November of 2005, boy_ish posted a Nick/Greg story to the nickngreg livejournal community. No big deal. However, at the end of her post, she asked for a frank evaluation of the story and her characterization, including very specific questions. The commentors answered the questions honestly and she was thus offended. Since then, things between boy_ish and the rest of the nickngreg community were never the same.

Over the summer, she was suspended from nickngreg for starting wank and insulting various members of the comm. This only furthered the split. Everything wrong Nick/Greg related became a conspiracy run by either geekwriter413, mangojunkie, kennedy_unknown or it_glitters, the mods and most active members of the comm.

boy_ish even goes as far as to create her own "unbiased" community, nickgreglove. It has roughly five active members.

[Most of the wank from this time has been deleted or put under flock, but there are remnants here, here and here.]



Now: dagdrommer, a Nick/Greg writer who lives in Norway, has a husband who collects Coke cans.

boy_ish offers to send a can, but asks about compensation for shipping to Norway. dagdrommer says of course she'll pay for shipping and things look dandy.

A little later, kennedy_unknown, who is already sending a CD to dagdrommer, offers to send a Coke can along with it. dagdrommer informs boy_ish of this and that's where things get weird:

boy_ish: Well it's a pretty crappy thing to do for somebody to pop in and 'help' when somebody else was already in the process, and "neglect" to even tell them about it.

kennedy_unknown: Oh, for crap's sake. I'm sorry I didn't get your press release, otherwise I wouldn't have dared pick up a can. If you like, I'll just drink it, throw it out and you can send Dag an invoice for your troubles.

THRILL as old wanks are rehashed! CHILL as it is not boy_ish's fault! WONDER as they split hairs about layout colors! MARVEL at the-- Well, just MARVEL:

You saw the effort I made--the places I was willing to go to genuinely make it better so we could all frickin' get along, but since I'd DARED to acknowledge mango's GENUINE agenda against me in a FRIENDS LOCKED journal entry, my every effort was deemed invalid and unworthy.

and

Please. You rub your freakin' self the wrong way. You choose to get worked up over nothing, and the fact that you have people who feel 'the same' as you do makes it a million times easier, and more likely.

Also, I've NEVER flamed anybody, and nor have I claimed "constructive criticism" (though "the mods" sure as hell have when attacking others--you have to be "prepared" for it and "able to deal with it" in that community!).

And, duh, how in the god damn *world* could it not bother me?? Could I not continue bringing up how SERIOUSLY wronged I was?? I know you don't get that--because you refuse, and will forever refuse to believe you've done anything wrong. Blame only goes on one side, and it's all about blame with you guys.