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anaerobica (anaerobica) wrote in [info]fandom_wank,
@ 2007-08-15 17:03:00


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Current mood:n00bish
Entry tags:comics, think of the fictional children

It's of utmost importance for you to know what a pervert you are
Slightly stale and quite small wank from the Comic Book Resources forums, where I'm sure there's lots more wank I'm not planning to fish out. But this one felt kinda appropiate after Boldthrough.

bmschweigert posts the link to a Supergirl fanart, apparently mistaking it for an official picture.

Alex A Sanchez:

I love her current costume. It might be neat to read a few stories about this "cute" supergirl, but as far as the regular comic, I like my "sexy" Kara very much thank you.

Cue Ravenwing263 registering (or sockpuppeting) just to tell that dirty bastard off:
Dude, she is a sixteen year-old girl. Unless you are a boy under the age of eighteen, you are a disgusting pervert.

trickster points the obvious:
You registered to call somebody a pervert? What a loser.

Alex A Sanchez enlightens us:
#1. She's a fictional character, dweeb. Her "age" is whatever the reader projects it to be. (???) That would make you a pervert for projecting anything disgusting about the character.

Ravenwing263 is still mad and not taking it anymore:
And, finally, yes, I would still have made the statement if you were gay, or a straight woman, because you still professed your interest in carrying on the disgusting, sexist tradition of a "sexy Supergirl."

They have this new thing now, called "porn." If you try it, you won't have to keep getting the pages of your comic books stuck together.



glennsim operates under the delusion that someone wanted his thoughts on yaoi:
More relevant: (?) my wife and I had a fight about this one time, shortly after we met. We have a certain amout of freedom when it comes to pointing out when someone around us is "hot", so it doesn't automatically get me in trouble if I point out a hot woman. I just don't need to over-do it.

Anyway, on one occasion, I pointed out that a 16-year-old step daughter of my cousin was "hot". Well then I got in trouble, because according to my wife, a 16-year-old has not mentally and emotionally developed to the point where they are prepared to have sex, and therefore I'm thinking about having sex in a disgusting predatory fashion. I then made the mistake of bringing out the "age of consent" thing, which was promptly shot down as "just because it's legal doesn't make it right", with cheating on one's spouse being presented as an example of something that is legal, but not morally right.

Somehow, I managed to escape the situation, although it was left a bit unsettled. A couple of weeks later, we were in a restaurant. She was sorta looking out into space, so I asked her what she was thinking of. She said that she was looking at the waiter. She thought he was attractive, but figured he was a little too young for her, and as a waiter probably didn't make enough money for her to feel comfortable dating him, and she wouldn't want to live in that town anyway.

I pointed out to her that she just spent 3 times a much time contemplating the situation than a guy does when he's looking at a woman. We pretty much stop at "attractive". We're not looking at an age, or a background, marital status, or how we might get along with the person, or anything. She's hot, or not. Now, if we go over and start talking to them, then we're making a committment that needs to be thought out. But just looking, not so much.

That pretty much set the matter to rest, because she assumed that if I thought the 16-year-old was hot, that I must be contemplating having sex with her, when in fact nothing of the sort was going on.

Alex A Sanchez lets Ravenwing263 know she's interrogating the sexy from the wrong perspective:
And cue the horns, ladies and gentlemen, we have our root disagreement: Sexism. And the counter argument? Sexy is not sexist.
Sexy is sexy, pure and simple. Prince is sexy. Janet Jackson is sexy. Justin Timberlake is sexy. Scarlet Johanson is sexy. Being sexy is more than just dressing scantily or being a sex object. Sex is power. Sexiness its an attitude that carries its head high. Its about confidence and being secure in who you are, no matter how odd or how much of an outcast you may be. Andre 3000 is sexy, and he's nowhere near trendy or chic. He starts trends. (Heck, I'm damn sexy. And proud of it too. You should see my MySpace photos. ) SG is a person growing into that mold, and this was what I was endorsing. That cutsie SG illustration doesn't command the same type of authority that the current SG does- and when I read an "S" character, I want a character that embodies strength and authority. Clark is sexy- it's part of his appeal. His ass and junk shows all of the time and his costume is far more revealing than Kara's. Just because Supergirl is a female, she can't embrace her sexuality?!? Now THAT is sexist.

Later, a mod intervened to stop the brawl, thus rendered unanswered for the ages the great mystery: in which alternate reality does one find this superjunk-laden official comic?


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[info]meyerlemon
2007-08-15 09:32 pm UTC (link)
When your husband looks at his cousin's 16-year-old stepdaughter and says that he'd tap that--

I don't understand. How does this guy still have a wife?

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[info]gynocrat
2007-08-15 09:35 pm UTC (link)
Because his wife's 18, and far more matoor than he's ever be.

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[info]meyerlemon
2007-08-15 09:53 pm UTC (link)
STAND BY - DUMB QUESTION TO FOLLOW:

Is his wife actually 18? Because his profile (stalk, stalk says that he's 37 and has a special room in his house devoted to his collection of 20,000 comics.

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[info]tehrin
2007-08-15 10:06 pm UTC (link)
It doesn't say in the post. And I'm not going to judge their relationship just based on age- unless it started before she was 18. But it could explain why he's so staunch about the "psychological age determined by the reader" thing.

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[info]gynocrat
2007-08-15 10:09 pm UTC (link)
Nah, I was being a wise ass. But hey, he does have a "special" room for his 20,000 comics, so he's still in the running for the terminally pathetic award.

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[info]meyerlemon
2007-08-15 09:38 pm UTC (link)
Actually, I take it back. THIS is what freaks me out most:

A couple of weeks later, we were in a restaurant. She was sorta looking out into space, so I asked her what she was thinking of. She said that she was looking at the waiter. She thought he was attractive, but figured he was a little too young for her, and as a waiter probably didn't make enough money for her to feel comfortable dating him, and she wouldn't want to live in that town anyway.

If that's really passes for casual restaurant conversation among The Marrieds, I am never getting married, ever.

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[info]danceswithelvis
2007-08-15 09:47 pm UTC (link)
Um...wow. Yeah, that aint normal. True, I'm only newly wed and all, but that sort of conversation would freak me the fuck out.

Of course, I'm the girl who kicked a guy out of my car once because of this line: "I never date a girl unless I think I can marry her."

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[info]damnedfallacy
2007-08-15 10:01 pm UTC (link)
Was the car in motion at the time?

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[info]danceswithelvis
2007-08-16 06:31 pm UTC (link)
Sadly no. The guy was such an asshole too.

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[info]tehrin
2007-08-15 10:18 pm UTC (link)
GAH. CREEPY.

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[info]danceswithelvis
2007-08-16 06:33 pm UTC (link)
:( Yes. He sorta stalked me after that. I think he ended up marrying a 17 year old. (He was 25 or so at the time. Older than me and kinda freaky.)


OT: why can't freaks have warning lables? That way you could save yourself the trouble of finding out while waiting on a traffic light?

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[info]fyren
2007-08-16 01:47 am UTC (link)
I think that's kind of sweet.....

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[info]seiberwing
2007-08-16 05:36 am UTC (link)
It toes the creepy/sweet line. But more creepy.

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[info]danceswithelvis
2007-08-16 06:35 pm UTC (link)
Considering how creepy the guy turned into, I can't really go with this. I could see it being sweet right before a proposal...but not on the first date. -_-

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[info]dragonfangirl
2007-08-15 10:31 pm UTC (link)
as a waiter probably didn't make enough money for her to feel comfortable dating him, and she wouldn't want to live in that town anyway.

How does she know that he lives around there anyway?!

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[info]minna
2007-08-15 11:35 pm UTC (link)
He'd assumedly have to live close enough to be able to get back and forth from home to work easily enough. :o Somewhere in the town is a reasonable assumption.

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[info]julesnoctambule
2007-08-16 12:09 am UTC (link)
Not in my marriage!

We usually talk about fanfic, cooking or Doctor Who. Not all at once, necessarily.

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[info]cmdr_zoom
2007-08-16 01:14 am UTC (link)
This demands a fanfic: "Cooking For Ten."

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[info]julesnoctambule
2007-08-16 02:48 am UTC (link)
Oddly enough, the fanfic isn't Who-related. I find it difficult to try to write fics based on tv shows because my poor brain has trouble translating the visual experience into words.

No, believe it or not, the husband willingly spends time discussing the finer points of my Remus/Sirius fics with me! Could it be because I bake such damn good cakes?

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[info]aristaea
2007-08-16 10:22 am UTC (link)
the husband willingly spends time discussing the finer points of my Remus/Sirius fics with me!

. . . Can we share him? My last boyfriend just left me comments about how much my Remus/Sirius fic freaked him out.

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[info]amyheartssiroc
2007-08-16 04:06 am UTC (link)
Eh, I can understand it. My boyfriend and I have talked about what people we find physically attractive and why. It's about understanding the other's thought processes.

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[info]meyerlemon
2007-08-16 04:13 am UTC (link)
Wow, you guys sound like such a totally rad couple!

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[info]funwithrage
2007-08-16 03:43 pm UTC (link)
Yeah, I do that too.

But I'd still be a little creeped out if my boyfriend started saying that *about his family members*. I mean, the age thing wouldn't bug me so much, but...cousin. Cousin's stepdaughter.

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[info]lysana
2007-08-17 09:50 pm UTC (link)
My husband managed to do that without going into the creepy zone. He applied a large disclaimer relating to her family status before admitting to the hotness of one of my nieces, who was legal in all 50 states when he noted it. And I wasn't worried what it said about him; it's not like he watched her grow up from the time she was in the hospital nursery like I did. And speaking from an aesthetic perspective while realizing it hits a squick button to say it, yes, damn it, I DO have a good-looking niece. I have a very pretty family. I think I got used to that sort of perspective after the sixth girl came up to me during my first week as a freshman in high school to drool over my older brother.

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[info]kate74
2007-08-19 08:09 am UTC (link)
Win! Yes, my hubby and I have similar conversations. Just because you're married doesn't mean that you'll never ever find anyone else physically attractive again, and people who think that their spouse/bf/gf shouldn't are deluded.

It's how you respond to the fact that someone's attractive that counts. I usually go "Mmm - hot" and leave it at that. I think the woman contemplating how she couldn't date the guy because he's on minimum wage and she doesn't like his town is kinda weird. If he had a good job in a nice town would her husband have been going home alone?

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