Urgh. I'm reminded now of a person who used to be on my friendslist who eventually asked me to defriend her because she'd defriended me. I looked back later (...self-Googling, I'll admit) and apparently she does that sort of thing monthly, asking for anyone she's defriended to defriend her so her profile is "neater." How dare you be interested in my journal if I'm not interested in yours, damn it!