The hardest choice for me was Dumbledore is gay versus Diana Gabaldon's opinion about fanfic. I ended up going with DG and fanfic because, having read the Outlander series, I rather enjoyed all the "she wrote WHAT?!" that was going on in the comments.

The anniversary stuff has had me trying to remember when my first visit to fandom_wank was... I feel like it was probably Crystalwank, but I lurked for years before I signed up for an account, so it's hard to pinpoint.