I have a feeling this particular anon is a bit on the young side (or so I hope) and is just repeating phrases they think will make an impact or something to that effect. When they first started sending me message I wrote several long posts going into how liking a character or ship doesn't mean liking everything about the character or the characters in the pairing or even thinking that they are the perfect couple and will happily ever after, you know pretty much saying fiction =/= reality - because I thought 'they're come off young, maybe it's baby's first fandom. So I'll be nice and give thoughtful answers.'

They just got madder and more abusive and then started in on the concern trolling and the 'but you're a feminist!' stuff. I think they were trying to say that I was painting an abuser as a 'good' person? I don't know. At the time I was mostly pissed that they brought real life abuse I suffered into it.