tyvm yet again for sharing everything you've been willing to share. Also very glad to hear that both couples are doing well, that's a nice silver lining to come out of this pile of crap.

If you want a JF I could try and request one for you? Robin's been screwing with the server for the past couple weeks so I'm not sure if that's even a thing that could happen, but I'd be happy to try.

(So totally understanding the mothering/cleaning thing, although the wifeing bit is not on my radar. Mothering eats ALL your time and cleaning all the things eats what mothering doesn't eat.)