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The S in Savage Garden is for S&M

the Savage Garden slash fandom has a few infamous nutbars and one of them is darrendannygirl , who specializes in wanking anyone who dares to write about Darren and Daniel in a way that interferes with their Twu Wuv because they are Soulmates. Lately, she has been following a Savage Garden fanficjournal by the name of kissdivine where the latest entries/fic chapters have made it clear that the two bois are getting into some Master and Servant action. To darrendannygirl , for whom seeing the boys say bad words is enough to get her in a froth, this is enough to prompt three rants.

People who think S&M means love and trust don't know anything about love. S&M people don't know the meaning of love and romance. Love and romance is trusting that your love would NEVER hurt you. Loving someone is NEVER wanting to hurt their love. Love is wanting to die before they ever hurt their love. So for all you S&M lovers, have sex on a hot burner on the stove. Get into an abusive relationship. Why not? You love being slapped until you're red, right? I think people that like S&M need psychological help. Sorry, but the truth hurts, doesn't it? "Oh slap me! That feels good! Whip me hard!" That is crazy talk. Who wants to be slapped and enjoys it? Who wants to slap the one you love? Darren himself said S&M scares him. It just goes to show what some people know. I pity anyone who thinks they know what love is. Love isn't taking enjoyment out of hurting the one you love, or being hurt by them. Romance isn't barking orders like a drill sergeant. Love is saying over and over how much you love the person you are making love. Not telling him that they will circum to you. That is so not hot, and it is so wrong on so many different levels. Shame on any S&M lover. You are truly whacked in the head, and I can only pray that one day you will grow up and learn the real meaning of love. I do not envy you.
And when I get married I will only settle for someone who can love me and treat me right. If he ever even thought of S&M, he would so be out the door in a flash.

I don’t' even like reading Kiss Divine anymore. I don't read the comments, and I hardly read the posts. It is sickening. I miss the other ones. These ones were nice at first, but now with this whack S&M stuff... I don't care what anyone says. S&M is messed up and it isn't love. In fact, it just goes to show how much you don't love someone when you do that. Purposely stopping your love from coming, barking at them like they are dirt, slapping them until they are red. Frankly it's an insult to the real Darren. He didn't find pleasure being slapped by his father, and frankly being slapped by a lover isn't any less painful. I don't care if a lover would stop. A lover shouldn't get enjoyment out of slapping and hurting anyway. And what is with getting pleasure out of there being pain in sex? Sorry, but sex to me is making a person you love feel good. I've never had sex but I've talked to people who have and they said it is supposed to feel good, no pain. They said if you're with the right person, and they love you, then they take it slow and there is no pain. Several people have agreed with me that love isn't S&M and that love is not pain, so I feel good about my post.
your lover isn't a slave he is one to be loved and cherished.

Don't give him a cock ring, give him flowers and chocolates or a love poem counting off the reasons why you love him and would never hurt him.
You want to talk to him, then don't snap at him like a drill sergeant, barking out orders and telling him to be quiet.
Say things like, "You are so beautiful. I would rather die than ever hurt you. I will never slap you. I will only kiss you, love you, make you feel so good, because Baby, you make me feel so good about myself. I just want to show you physically how good you make me feel emotionally. I love you."

Now *that* is real love. Not "Stay still! I didn't tel you, you could move!" *Rolls eyes*. That would be the day I'd ever let someone I love talk to me like that, joking or no joking!

I don't hate the players. 'Daniel' is especially nice to me. I just don't agree with their writing right now...

Then, on the kissdivine entry being wanked about, other people discover the wank and decide to comment (they can't directly comment in her journal because it's friendslocked for comments), prompting yet another rant:

Okay. I've even asked Andy, who’s is 40 what he thinks of S&M. He says people who do it are whacked out and weird, and he loses all respect for them. Sara also agrees with me, and her mother agrees, and my sister agrees, as well as others. Also, the real Darren agrees, so it just goes to show that Kiss Divine are whacked and weird :P I even found the quote in my icon. I think it fits. :)

I don't care if people are going on about me in their journals or their comments. I don't read them because it is a waste of my time. I do, however, find it amusing. I know people are just angry because they know I am right. Otherwise, why would they even care? It is fun ticking people off. I get a laugh out of it. People are closet fans of me as much as they bitch. I mean, if I really annoyed them, then why would the come back and keep reading? People read my LJ whom aren't even on my friends list! It's awesome. It's such a riot to see people getting all bitchy because of something I wrote. I feel my job is done when they bitch :P

KissDivine are probably a bunch of little girls, trying to act cool. I think a lot of people on line lie about who they are. They pretend they are adults and really aren't. Kiss Divine is probably Carolyn. It's the same painful sex bull crap, and Daniel on bottom she always does. Or it could be Luna who loves nasty S&M. Stine and or Steen are probably involved too. I believe it's always been the same people doing Kiss Divine. The people in the clique. They just pretend to leave every once in a while to try to throw people off. Then one member will fill in for the other when the other can't be there. Someone probably filled in for Stine when she was in Australia. I know suddenly, now that she is back, you have this S&M bull crap.

It's pathetic really. At least when I get into a relationship it will be loving, and not painful, because I am smart enough to know that real love is never hurting the one you love or being hurt by the one you love.

I actually hope the S&M lovers all get beat to a bloody pulp. Hey, it's not being mean, they love pain, so why not?

And this is why i love my fandom, good times had by all :}

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	warchio 2005-01-18 09:48 pm UTC (link)
	Is it weird that what bothered me most was not the clumsy dialogue she suggested, her screaming aversion to S&M or her paranoia but the fact that she spelt succumb as circum? (Reply to this)(Thread)