"why does everybodfy think i am an ASSHOLE?!"
Maybe because that's how you're acting? Hmm?

So, I know, we drummers are insane wanky by default. Here's a prime example from the LJ Drumming community, wherein someone decides to preach on the "feng shui" of properly balancing your kit. Naturally others take him to task for being full of himself, and it devolves into, of all things, a wank over male vs. female drummers. Um, whatever.

Well, it amused me...