socialshrapnel comes along and cue the wank... I kinda agree with your sister. You can't say you feel like one thing rather than another if you haven't experienced both. I'm sure plenty of females have the same gender in their head as a lot of FTMs...they just don't see the point in mutilating their bodies for it. My sister is far more masculinethan me but wouldn't dream of changing her body even if it was socially acceptable, free, and painless! Gender Dysphoria is a psychiatric condition and like all psychiatric conditions has many different ways in which it can be cured. And it has to be cured...because who'd want to feel that way forever? Sometimes I think most transexuals are really really fucked up in the head :/