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Tuesday, June 20th, 2006
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9:30p - Yay! Blowjob wank!
Over at Salon.com, there's a post delineating the ins and outs of a lovely wank about everybody's favorite indoor sport, Blow Jobs. This is a lively and complex wank, involving several feminist blogs such as I Blame the Patriarchy and Feministe, comment pile-ons, and Politically Correct snarking galore.
Because I am a lazy bugger, and Rebecca Traister has done such a great job of breaking down the wank anyway, I shall simply give you all the link:
Apparently, no living woman in history has ever enjoyed a blow job!
My, my. Isn't it great to be well-informed? And here I thought sex was an enjoyable pastime. It never occured to me that I was being vilely oppressed. I'm glad you're here to tell us these things, Sparky!
ETA: My favorite bit in the Salon comments: The blowee (the "dominant figure") in order to humiliate/oppress/disempower the blower (the "submissive figure") takes his extremely delicate, overstimulated, hypersensitive, icon of manhood and puts it between the teeth of the blower whose jaw can potentially apply up to 200lbs of pressure...it doesn't take a mathmetician, a doctor, philosopher or any other highly degreed person to understand who is truly in the position of power during this particular sex act--the problem is, some blowers just don't know whose boss.
Exactly. It wasn't until I started reading feminist books that it even occured to me that blowjobs could be oppressive, and even then I didn't buy it (for me at least). Blowjobs were fun. Guys got off on them and I liked getting them off. Where's the minus in that equation?
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