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Loopywafflehead ([info]loopywafflehead) wrote in [info]otf_wank,
@ 2005-10-09 13:51:00


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The online drama is what's wanky here, the story itself is really quite sad. The body of a girl was recently discovered and found to be that of Taylor Behl, who’d been missing for some time. One of the suspects was Ben Fawley, a friend of the deceased. Both Behl and Fawley have live journals.

Cue the:
· Messages of sympathy for Behl’s family;
· Messages of hate for Fawley;
· Trolls blaming Behl;
· Trolls posting porn;
· Outraged people responding to the trolls;
· Analyses of Behl’s character and family life, and whether any of it contributed to what happened;
· Threats against commentators making said analyses;
· People who didn’t know Behl making all sorts of memorials (writing poems, lighting candles, making photoshopped pictures);
· People claiming that it’s all a case of Missing White Girl syndrome and that the memorial makers are insincere, self-righteous and their photoshopped memorials suck;
· Two aforementioned groups of people fighting with each other.

Fawley is apparently no longer considered a suspect in this case, although he is being held on other charges. Fawley has locked his journal and his Deviant Art account was deleted. People are instead responding to the comments he’d left in earlier entries in Behl’s journal. Go internet justice!

ETA: I was wrong, Fawley is still a suspect.


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[info]krazycat
2005-10-09 12:25 pm UTC (link)
I thought he only stopped being a person of interest for like, a day?

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[info]loopywafflehead
2005-10-09 12:28 pm UTC (link)
Would you happen to have a link to any articles? The ones I've seen said that he was no longer a person of interest, but if that's changed, I'll edit the post.

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(no subject) - [info]krazycat, 2005-10-09 12:39 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]loopywafflehead, 2005-10-09 12:47 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]v_digitalwytch, 2005-10-09 06:24 pm UTC

[info]krazycat
2005-10-09 12:42 pm UTC (link)
Hey, look what happened to his deviantart page!

That wasn't there a couple of days ago.

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[info]loopywafflehead
2005-10-09 12:59 pm UTC (link)
Thanks for that, too! I've added this link to the post.

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[info]prettypinkkitty
2005-10-09 01:45 pm UTC (link)
Oh man...Fawley's LJ userinfo title is so unfortunate...

Aside from its very sad story, it's fascinating to see how people react online to respond to the death of a stranger who happens to have an online forum. Some professor is out there writing a paper on this.

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You have my wife in your icon - [info]prettyveela, 2005-10-09 06:15 pm UTC

[info]sepiamagpie
2005-10-09 02:25 pm UTC (link)
I'm sorry, are some commenters saying she deserved to die because she wasn't a nun?


ps: I hate wanks where I end up wanting to smack as many people as possible.

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(no subject) - [info]pyratejenni, 2005-10-09 02:28 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]sepiamagpie, 2005-10-09 02:59 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]pyratejenni, 2005-10-09 04:15 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]sepiamagpie, 2005-10-09 04:16 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]judyhazeleyes, 2005-10-09 05:27 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]dang, 2005-10-09 09:44 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]rogue, 2005-10-09 11:22 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]deoridhe, 2005-10-10 12:55 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]rogue, 2005-10-10 01:54 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]deoridhe, 2005-10-10 02:56 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]kaiser_chan, 2005-10-10 03:33 am UTC

[info]pyratejenni
2005-10-09 02:27 pm UTC (link)
And of course thebitingfaery, with the perfect wisdom of a twenty-two-year old, makes only sane, reasonable choices with her life.

Of course.

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(no subject) - [info]lush_rimbaud, 2005-10-09 04:44 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]pyratejenni, 2005-10-09 04:51 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]sepiamagpie, 2005-10-09 06:05 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]pyratejenni, 2005-10-10 12:42 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]moonjaguar, 2005-10-10 04:58 am UTC

[info]prettyveela
2005-10-09 05:56 pm UTC (link)
Does thebitingfaery know the girl? *trying to read all this wank*

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(no subject) - [info]wankismyfandom, 2005-10-09 07:11 pm UTC

[info]sabinelagrande
2005-10-09 06:29 pm UTC (link)
Would it be inappropriate at this point to wish death upon thebitingfaery?

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(no subject) - [info]scootermcgaffin, 2005-10-09 06:33 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]teratologist, 2005-10-10 01:26 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]dreamtoday, 2005-10-10 02:38 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]deadlettero, 2005-10-10 05:20 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]radiotrash, 2005-10-10 08:08 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]teratologist, 2005-10-10 02:54 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]souris, 2005-10-10 08:20 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]loopywafflehead, 2005-10-11 09:15 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]annabelle_lee, 2005-10-10 08:27 am UTC

[info]psychofangirl
2005-10-09 06:48 pm UTC (link)
Only the person who killed her is to blame for her death.

It's clear that she was far from perfect and DID make some bad choices. But, being a "slut" doesn't invite death or rape.

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(no subject) - [info]wankismyfandom, 2005-10-09 07:12 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]ironymaiden, 2005-10-09 07:57 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]maev_connacht, 2005-10-09 07:54 pm UTC
(no subject) - (Anonymous), 2005-10-10 06:54 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]psychofangirl, 2005-10-10 06:58 am UTC

[info]mael
2005-10-09 07:01 pm UTC (link)
You're livejournal has been read through and we've been able to determine your approximate location from addresses you've mentioned, such as the club where VNV nation will play in Dec that you mentioned. (crap band by the way you trend whore, I guess it's "goth")

You work at Spencers, and there's not so many malls around where you live. We will find you. We will track you to your house. It's over for you.


... sweet Christ on a pony. This is possibly one of the only times when I'd seriously consider involving the police in internet-drama.

They're... threatening this woman's CHILD. That's insane. And really fucking scary.

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(no subject) - [info]krazycat, 2005-10-09 07:15 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]loony666, 2005-10-09 09:10 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]felinephoenix, 2005-10-09 10:06 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]oneiropolos, 2005-10-09 11:50 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]greenling, 2005-10-09 10:48 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]radiotrash, 2005-10-10 08:10 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]felinephoenix, 2005-10-10 02:50 pm UTC

[info]nebbieq
2005-10-09 07:23 pm UTC (link)
I think we can all agree that wanking over a dead girl's body is pretty creepy.

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(no subject) - [info]wanktastic, 2005-10-09 10:06 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]nebbieq, 2005-10-09 10:55 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kaiser_chan, 2005-10-10 03:36 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]michithekiller, 2005-10-10 05:18 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]kaiser_chan, 2005-10-10 05:19 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]michithekiller, 2005-10-10 05:18 am UTC

[info]kookaburra
2005-10-09 07:58 pm UTC (link)
I really have to laugh hard at the people who say 17 year olds are mature enough to make their own descions, and that they go ahead with what they've decided no matter what anyone says.

IMO, those things are mutally exclusive. And 17 year olds are, well 'idiots' isn't the right word, how about, 'outrageously unwise'?- I know, I was one 3 years ago. It kind of goes with the territory of being a teenager.

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(no subject) - [info]mistal, 2005-10-09 10:42 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kookaburra, 2005-10-09 10:47 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]memii, 2005-10-10 12:18 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]kookaburra, 2005-10-10 02:28 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]memii, 2005-10-10 02:47 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]kookaburra, 2005-10-10 02:52 am UTC
random.
[info]waterfront
2005-10-09 08:06 pm UTC (link)
So, essentially, some of those people're saying "she deserved it."

Great! You walk down a dark street and some jerk rapes you, it's totally your fault for walking down that dark street.

I mean, it's not like it's the jerk's fault for, you know, raping you.

Of course not.

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ICON. - [info]judyhazeleyes, 2005-10-09 08:46 pm UTC
Re: ICON. - [info]felinephoenix, 2005-10-09 10:07 pm UTC
Re: ICON. - (Anonymous), 2005-10-29 07:12 pm UTC
Re: ICON. - [info]felinephoenix, 2005-10-30 12:00 pm UTC
Re: random. - [info]plazmah, 2005-10-09 10:47 pm UTC
Re: random. - [info]deoridhe, 2005-10-10 12:59 am UTC
Re: random. - [info]krazycat, 2005-10-10 02:58 am UTC
Re: random. - [info]squib, 2005-10-10 12:08 pm UTC
Re: random. - (Anonymous), 2005-10-10 07:26 am UTC
Re: random. - [info]wankismyfandom, 2005-10-10 08:33 pm UTC
Re: random. - [info]moonjaguar, 2005-10-10 06:52 pm UTC

[info]kookaburra
2005-10-09 08:15 pm UTC (link)
Also: Let this be a lesson to everyone who says "It's just the internet, why should I spell correctly/write coherently/express worthwhile things?" Because someday, you or a friend could be murdered, and then your insipid, misspelled, soulless posts and comments will be up for eeeeeveryone to see.

/moral of the day

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(no subject) - [info]nebbieq, 2005-10-09 10:02 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]cleolinda, 2005-10-10 12:14 am UTC

[info]xero_sky
2005-10-09 08:30 pm UTC (link)
Yeah, my condolences. But if you're still alive, happy talk like a pirate day!

Livejournal at its finest: one big, happy, psychotic Hallmark card.

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(no subject) - [info]mooncalf, 2005-10-09 08:38 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]felinephoenix, 2005-10-09 10:08 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]loopywafflehead, 2005-10-11 09:21 pm UTC

[info]azhidahaki
2005-10-09 08:36 pm UTC (link)
Wow...just wow.

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[info]judyhazeleyes
2005-10-09 08:54 pm UTC (link)
She looks like a girl that was asking to be hurt.

I'm desperately hanging on to my very, very last shred of hope for humanity here. It's all on the line. Will some kind soul tell me that's just a joke, no one could actually say that and mean it, and allow me to go on living in my ignorant happy smiling fun land?

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(no subject) - [info]lush_rimbaud, 2005-10-09 09:21 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kookaburra, 2005-10-09 10:42 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]v_digitalwytch, 2005-10-10 12:45 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]moonjaguar, 2005-10-10 06:55 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]loopywafflehead, 2005-10-11 09:25 pm UTC

[info]kylenne
2005-10-10 12:09 am UTC (link)
Heh, Dateline NBC just did a story on this case tonight, and there was the soft lighting and sappy piano music, etc. They totally glossed over the wank, of course. FWIW, I learned more actual facts about the case on here than on teevee.

otf_wank: like CNN, in a way!

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(no subject) - [info]loki, 2005-10-10 03:12 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]bangoskank, 2005-10-10 03:24 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kylenne, 2005-10-10 03:59 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]loopywafflehead, 2005-10-11 09:28 pm UTC

(Anonymous)
2005-10-10 03:40 am UTC (link)
Sorry but I'm siding with thebitingfaery on this one. Everytime a little white girl goes missing the media turns it into a national fucking emergency. It's getting old. And while she didn't deserve what happened to her I dare say that it might have been prevented if she'd been more careful.

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(no subject) - [info]platedlizard, 2005-10-10 05:12 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]teratologist, 2005-10-10 02:29 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]lush_rimbaud, 2005-10-10 07:06 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]majorburns, 2005-10-11 01:44 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]phosfate, 2005-10-11 02:00 pm UTC

[info]skewed_tartan
2005-10-10 04:08 am UTC (link)
And are we saint? Have we never done anything stupid? And for that matter do you know explicitly what happened? NO YOU DON'T. You do NOT know if this could have been prevented or not.

And its just not if white girls go missing, its any young girl; I've seen plenty of missing black and latino girls on the news as I have white, where I'm from at least.

And these "mational emergncies" have saved lives before. Just about a year ago two girls were saved from being killed because they're kidnapper's car (a totally random kidnapping)was reported to the police by someone who had been listening to the radio for the description of the vechile.

So shut the fuck up before speaking without any facts whatsoever to back yourself up with.

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(no subject) - (Anonymous), 2005-10-10 05:31 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]skewed_tartan, 2005-10-10 06:33 pm UTC
(no subject) - (Anonymous), 2005-10-11 12:37 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]majorburns, 2005-10-11 01:46 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]skewed_tartan, 2005-10-11 05:01 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]majorburns, 2005-10-11 12:12 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]skewed_tartan, 2005-10-11 07:12 pm UTC
Oh God.
(Anonymous)
2005-10-10 02:29 pm UTC (link)
Ever since Dateline gave out the livejournal address, a thousand and one people have gone into the entry and made a gazillion troll comments. Some even posting stupid photoshop edit pictures. And saying she deserved it because she was a 'whore'.

Don't people have any shame? Seriously. This is messed up.

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[info]teratologist
2005-10-10 02:33 pm UTC (link)
As some perspacious blogger whose name I sadly cannot now remember has pointed out, this perfectly illustrates the old problem of the double standard. If women treat all men as potential rapists and murderers, we're crazed man-hating hairy-legged whatsists of a paranoid and shrill demeanor. If we don't, it's our own fault when we get raped and/or murdered, for not having done something to 'prevent' it.

The problem of where the media's attention is directed is an entirely different story; considering I haven't seen this case on any of my own favorite news outlets yet, I certainly can't say that it seems overhyped to me.

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(no subject) - [info]loopywafflehead, 2005-10-11 09:33 pm UTC

[info]maev_connacht
2005-10-10 03:30 pm UTC (link)
Another related article, in which a Richmond Times-Dispatch writer brings up a lot of the same points mowed over by the wankers in her LJ.

I wonder if anyone's threatened his children yet.

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