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Eppy ([info]lizzypaul) wrote in [info]otf_wank,
@ 2006-02-01 21:43:00


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Current mood:Bitter
Current music:Jon Stewart

That's it, I quit.
Feminist over on LJ is at it again. Of course.

Ziggyblinx wants to talk about how hard it is to be a male feminist.

Lots of people think he's overstepped himself. Other people show support.

There is wank. Of course. I long for the patriarchy at this point; they're all insane. Also, megerah5872's icon is seriously creeping me out.



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[info]mouseykins
2006-02-02 04:56 am UTC (link)
Harold & Maude icon! I just watched that movie for the first time last weekend.

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[info]feloniousfeline
2006-02-02 05:47 am UTC (link)
I love that movie. It's the closest thing to a romantic comedy I'll watch.

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[info]mcity
2006-02-02 05:08 am UTC (link)
I don't think he did anything against equality. He didn't say anything about if it was harder than being a female feminst. He was just voiceing his opinion and experience, something that should be valued, as in valuing all opinions and experiences and feelings and being equal. Now, if he would have said "It's so much harder" then yes, that would be crossing lines. By why would you react so strong to someone expressing themselves and wanting understanding?
Can't we all just get a dong?

I checked, and Likeawoman's LJ is filled with Feminist!Liberal!Yar!posts.

Also, I love Viggie's first icon here, if only for the mild irony of her using it at the same time she uses a completely condescending quote.

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[info]mrbimble
2006-02-04 04:26 pm UTC (link)
OMGWTF icon! May I use? Whom should I credit?

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(no subject) - [info]mcity, 2006-02-04 05:34 pm UTC

[info]deathmouse
2006-02-02 05:23 am UTC (link)
I see where this guy is coming from. I'm a feminist who's decidedly male and I too have felt like I wasn't being taken seriously as one because of my gender. At the same time, if feminism is really an important matter to him, it shouldn't matter if he can't play in the girls' clubhouse.

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[info]smo
2006-02-02 05:32 am UTC (link)
*boggles at your icon*

What... in GOD'S name...?

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(no subject) - [info]khym_chanur, 2006-02-02 05:41 am UTC
Feminist, shmeminist...
[info]drworm
2006-02-02 05:42 am UTC (link)
That rat's humpin' a Nintendo controller!

Or at least, I hope to god that's what's going on.

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Re: Feminist, shmeminist... - [info]scootermcgaffin, 2006-02-02 05:44 am UTC
Re: Feminist, shmeminist... - [info]deathmouse, 2006-02-02 05:46 am UTC
Re: Feminist, shmeminist... - [info]scootermcgaffin, 2006-02-02 05:47 am UTC
Re: Feminist, shmeminist... - [info]sadisticferret, 2006-02-02 07:22 am UTC
Re: Feminist, shmeminist... - [info]moonpigeon, 2006-02-02 08:06 am UTC
Re: Feminist, shmeminist... - [info]chibikaijuu, 2006-02-03 04:29 pm UTC
Re: Feminist, shmeminist... - [info]tekenduis, 2006-02-02 12:25 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]selene_avis, 2006-02-02 06:26 am UTC
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flightstothesea
2006-02-02 05:23 am UTC (link)
Oh woe. Those poor male feminists.

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(no subject) - [info]kadath, 2006-02-02 02:46 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]njyoder, 2006-02-05 06:43 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]selene_avis, 2006-02-03 09:07 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]njyoder, 2006-02-05 06:44 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]selene_avis, 2006-02-05 10:16 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]njyoder, 2006-02-06 12:14 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]selene_avis, 2006-02-07 04:28 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]njyoder, 2006-02-07 04:31 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]selene_avis, 2006-02-07 04:39 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]njyoder, 2006-02-05 06:45 am UTC
(no subject) - flightstothesea, 2006-02-05 06:52 am UTC
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(no subject) - [info]njyoder, 2006-02-05 07:07 am UTC

[info]scootermcgaffin
2006-02-02 05:33 am UTC (link)
What is this "Patriarchy" everyone's talking about and why don't I have a membership card?

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[info]moonpigeon
2006-02-02 05:36 am UTC (link)
Your comment involves a personal attack and violent, potentially triggering language.

WHAT.

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(no subject) - [info]selene_avis, 2006-02-02 06:28 am UTC
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[info]selene_avis
2006-02-02 06:17 am UTC (link)
Wow, we're on otf_wank already? That was quick!

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(no subject) - [info]mee, 2006-02-02 06:43 am UTC

[info]jadelennox
2006-02-02 07:08 am UTC (link)
The feminist comm makes me want to start calling myself childfree.

You see, I've always said, "well, I don't want children, but I don't want to be associated with the batshit loonies in cf_hardcore, so I'll call myself childless instead of childfree". But you know, feminist makes cf_hardcore types look like sane, reasonable, diplomatic people with convincing arguments, and I'll be damned if I'm going to let them make me stop calling myself a feminist. So if I can't let the feminist comm still a word from me...

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(no subject) - [info]jadelennox, 2006-02-02 07:15 am UTC
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[info]ashenmote
2006-02-02 10:47 am UTC (link)
I'm trying to figure out how wanking all over the post is not catering to the male attention whoring.

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(no subject) - [info]selene_avis, 2006-02-02 03:16 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]phosfate, 2006-02-02 09:15 pm UTC
OT - [info]tofuknight, 2006-02-02 03:18 pm UTC

[info]ashenmote
2006-02-02 01:32 pm UTC (link)
Plus, I'm sad I didn't get to see [info]ziggyblinx's "OMG 'm leaving feminism!!!" post before it was deleted.

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(no subject) - [info]selene_avis, 2006-02-02 03:17 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]ashenmote, 2006-02-03 01:29 am UTC

[info]tekenduis
2006-02-02 01:44 pm UTC (link)
Good god, can not one of them spell privilege?

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[info]aerobot
2006-02-02 01:47 pm UTC (link)
*plays the world's smallest violin*

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[info]darkeyes
2006-02-02 01:50 pm UTC (link)
Can someone please tell me what the heck does 'womyn' mean, and why is it being used all over that comm instead of the word 'women'?

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(no subject) - [info]jat_sapphire, 2006-02-02 02:38 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]vigilanterodent, 2006-02-02 02:53 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]vigilanterodent, 2006-02-02 06:04 pm UTC
Ooh, etymology... - [info]nolifeking, 2006-02-02 06:37 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]funwithrage, 2006-02-02 03:28 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]rotten_fish, 2006-02-02 04:26 pm UTC
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[info]emiweebee
2006-02-02 05:19 pm UTC (link)
This reminds me of the RL wank explosion that happened at my ultra-liberal campus. Some girls decided the feminist group already in place wasn't militant enough, and so they were starting a new one. Not only did they plaster campus with a bunch of "real feminist" stories that were either lies, uneducated assumptions, or completely unrelated to feminism, they also insisted on no males whatsoever. Maybe, they said, once they had a group started and knew where they were going, they would open membership to males.

Boy, did they get torn to hell over that.

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[info]isntitironic
2006-02-02 07:47 pm UTC (link)
And nobody posted this?

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[info]gal_montag
2006-02-02 08:46 pm UTC (link)
Wow, I've seen this conversation before only it was on [info]blackfolk and I say, ladies, give it up. Most people aren't ready or able to give up their privilege no matter ho much they want to help.

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(no subject) - [info]kittikattie, 2006-02-03 10:46 am UTC
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(no subject) - [info]gal_montag, 2006-02-05 07:08 am UTC

[info]quinctia
2006-02-03 12:47 am UTC (link)
This is why I, despite being an ED-recovering, science degree holding, thinks math is easy, works at a hardware store woman, will never, ever identify as feminist.

It's a shield for women who've yet to take hold of their lives point out a scapegoat. Yes, there are negative pressures. Yes, our society used to think less of us because of our reproductive organs. But women who act like most on that feminist community do, fulfill negative female stereotypes and are the complete opposite of proactive. And are too busy telling men they're being evil for being born with a Y chromosome to go out and seize and make more opportunities for themselves. Ugh.

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[info]greenling
2006-02-03 01:26 am UTC (link)
Well, if nothing else, this was a good way to prove his point, with all the responses about "this is a women's place, how dare you mention your existence".

This guy's so fucked up and dislikes men-as-a-gender so much he's decided he's going to id as queer, and they talk about triggers? Jesus.

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(no subject) - [info]puipui, 2006-02-03 02:59 am UTC
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[info]funwithrage
2006-02-03 02:34 am UTC (link)
Gah.


On the one hand, community members are being all kinds of wanky, what with the men-are-evil and the you-can't-say-stab and the vast cosmic need to shut up.


But...oh, God, it's that guy. The guy who's really really sensitive and wants you to know all about it. He's in touch with your oppression. He cares about your feelings. He thinks society's really unfair to you, even when you don't. He believes wholeheartedly in the Sekrit Vagina Magic. He has an unkempt ponytail and can't fuck.


"I hate men so much that I can't identify as one..." What? *What*? Please shut up.


Goddammit. I just want everyone involved to spontaneously combust.

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(no subject) - [info]greenling, 2006-02-03 04:16 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]selene_avis, 2006-02-03 05:13 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]rubylou, 2006-02-03 10:54 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]selene_avis, 2006-02-03 09:14 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]njyoder, 2006-02-05 06:57 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]selene_avis, 2006-02-03 05:15 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]njyoder, 2006-02-05 06:59 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]njyoder, 2006-02-05 06:56 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]funwithrage, 2006-02-05 08:31 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]njyoder, 2006-02-05 08:53 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]funwithrage, 2006-02-05 06:43 pm UTC

[info]hellespont
2006-02-03 04:28 am UTC (link)
LikeAWoman roxx0rs my sockz0rs, but the whole thread just reminds me of why I don't debate feminism anymore. When people engage me in real life I tend to just remind people I have wildly unpopular opinions, and try to turn the conversation to what I saw some squirrels do the other day. (It was really cool).

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Okay, I'll bite. - [info]aegflota, 2006-02-03 08:44 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]felinephoenix, 2006-02-04 03:54 am UTC

redwarrior
2006-02-05 10:02 pm UTC (link)
I want to go hide my head in the sand now.

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