Okay, I completely realise and agree with you that education and contraception should be improved so that nobody has to abstain from anything and I wholeheartedly believe that parenthood should be subsidized so that anyone and everyone can afford a child. And that birth control should be free and perfected so that if one doesn't want a child, one never has to worry about creating one.

But.

Until then.

You can't tell me it doesn't make sense to abstain from vaginal sex. In this shitty situation, it is the smartest thing to do.