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wrazn ([info]wrazn) wrote in [info]otf_wank,
@ 2006-11-20 17:59:00


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Current mood:Gobsmacked

It started with an article in AsianWeek, "New Comic Strip Seeks Single Asian Female Perspective", about a new webcomic called Single Asian Female.

Responses have been varied. But there is an entertaining tempest in a teacup at reappropriate.

(Sorry, the links to individual comments don't seem to be working.)

smart guy said:
i guess u had sex with white guys, thats why u don’t like her comic strip.


Ryan W said:
we’re all placing bets that AA womyn will let a white guy speak for them before they speak for themselves
so just stand there gawking and finger wagging instead of dooooooooing something.
/headpat


jennie_j said:
i totally disagree with your views, and think the strips are dead-on in bringing awareness of important Asian American issues that would otherwise not get talked about. the bottom line is that there are many Asian females who exclusively date non-Asian men while insulting their own people and culture - all due to a repressed shame in many Asian women in being Asian…i know first hand from the friends i have had, as an Asian American woman who actually cares about the struggles of Asian American men, unlike you.


And then it deteriorates further.

ABSTRACT said:
As if we should even value Eugene’s opinion. Are you even Asian, because you look half Asian, which means you can’t fully understand the struggle of Asian American men and women.


Wut.

There's argument between ABSTRACT and Eugene, from the post "November 17th, 2006 at 4:47 am" on.

Then, on "November 17th, 2006 at 12:05 pm" smart guy adds:
You guys need to be more succinct.

Basically, if it matters if Ethan is a male, it matters that the author of this article does not date asian males.

Its as simple as that.


And ugh, there's more!

Rob said:
My reasons for finding interracial dating problematic (especially with Asians) in minority communities are strictly political, not sexual.

To answer Eugene’s question, it is my firm belief that interracial dating dilutes our political strength (as James pointed out was a far bigger issue) as well as how it contributes to the “perpetual foreigner” stereotype that so many of us Asians face. Additionally, I find a WF/WM pairing to be “less” damaging because it has a slight positive aspect to it in that it destroys the stereotype of Asian men being asexual.



And it goes on and on. Have a read for yourself. I've blacked out from the continuous head-desking.

(Is it okay that I feel like slapping some sense into people through the internet?)

PS: can anyone think of a good title?




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[info]blackjackrocket
2006-11-20 09:17 am UTC (link)
There's a stereotype of Asian men being asexual? Clearly they have heard not of the yaoi.

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(no subject) - [info]ravenclaw_devi, 2006-11-20 01:33 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]mcity, 2006-11-20 03:37 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]puipui, 2006-11-20 08:45 pm UTC
(no subject) - (Anonymous), 2006-11-20 07:23 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]heddychaa, 2006-11-21 08:28 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]frequentmouse, 2006-11-21 12:47 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]heddychaa, 2006-11-21 08:38 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]heddychaa, 2006-11-21 08:28 am UTC

(Anonymous)
2006-11-20 10:17 am UTC (link)
Dahhling, the desire to netslap people on these comms is almost requisite.

Don't worry, you're just normal.

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Wah wah wah, Asian guy angry about losing girlfriends to white guys
[info]rarirurero
2006-11-20 10:19 am UTC (link)
Oh wow. I don't think I've ever read a comic about women so painfully obvious in its male authorship in my life. Nice.

Of course all Asian women who date white men are horrible hypocrites, setting themselves up for divorce, who should have been dating Asian men all along. Of course!

/mops up

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[info]ichigatsu
2006-11-20 10:32 am UTC (link)
I'm a single Asian female and HFDLISNUM;U9YRE98AP[TFU23YO98QRUF fdsmlkoja;ouwe94fdsjkKJ098UJSCNAok

Sorry, that was me slapping my keyboard in rage and disbelief. I've been reading otf_wank for ages, I should be used to this by now!

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(no subject) - [info]gloria_mundi, 2006-11-20 11:13 pm UTC

(Anonymous)
2006-11-20 10:44 am UTC (link)
First thought: Yay, UC Berkeley! (GO BEARS!)

Second thought: Christ, that is the most boring comic ever.

- soimpossible414 @ LJ

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(no subject) - [info]ichigatsu, 2006-11-20 11:31 am UTC
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(no subject) - sharonapple, 2006-11-20 11:57 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]ichigatsu, 2006-11-20 11:59 am UTC
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(no subject) - (Anonymous), 2006-12-12 11:14 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]cinnamonical, 2006-11-21 06:02 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]narcissam, 2006-11-20 05:39 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]eilan, 2006-11-20 03:57 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]onaga, 2006-11-20 07:18 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]ichigatsu, 2006-11-21 04:56 am UTC

sharonapple
2006-11-20 11:13 am UTC (link)
I'm not really impressed by the art or the dialogue, it's reallyreally boring.

As if we should even value Eugene’s opinion. Are you even Asian, because you look half Asian, which means you can’t fully understand the struggle of Asian American men and women.

...No love for the biracials? Why? We think of you, sexily!

So laughable. You aren’t Asian, you’re half Asian, which means you understand the topic half at best. I don’t go around telling blacks and hispanics what kind of U.S. media they should or should not be offended by, and the same applies to you because this Comic strip does not concern you.

And if you actually cared about Asian American males, and recognize that the very same social messages found in this comic are severely underrepresented in ‘mainstream’ U.S. media, then why would you argue against them?


Woe, Abstract, woe! I cannot possibly be as oppressed by you and your pure Asian self! Because I am half-white there is no possibility of my privileged self being fetishized! Even worse, the poor pathetic Asian males are oppressed by the womens, especially "their" women!

Bitch plz. Your racism and misogyny are showing.

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(no subject) - [info]ravenclaw_devi, 2006-11-20 03:13 pm UTC
(no subject) - sharonapple, 2006-11-20 03:35 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]skewed_tartan, 2006-11-20 04:01 pm UTC
(no subject) - sharonapple, 2006-11-20 04:10 pm UTC
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[info]coffeebun
2006-11-20 01:34 pm UTC (link)
Stereotype of Asian men being asexual?

AAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAA no. :|

we’re all placing bets that AA womyn will let a white guy speak for them before they speak for themselves

... WOW I think my brain melted a little.

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(no subject) - [info]cinnamonical, 2006-11-21 06:03 am UTC

[info]damien
2006-11-20 03:08 pm UTC (link)
...That wank made me go and upload this icon.

And jeez, those comics suck. I'm going to have to point my Asian American course professor towards them to see what she makes of them.

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(no subject) - [info]ryuutchi, 2006-11-21 02:56 am UTC
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[info]onaga
2006-11-20 03:27 pm UTC (link)
Wait. Dating... weakens a political bloc?

That doesn't even make SENSE!

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[info]mcity
2006-11-20 03:40 pm UTC (link)
You know what would be really revolutionary? A fricking "prev" button. It's Usability 101, people; if one has to click more than three times to get what they want, one doesn't use the site. Not to mention that the archive makes no sense.

/web designer

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(no subject) - [info]onaga, 2006-11-20 04:40 pm UTC
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[info]skewed_tartan
2006-11-20 03:56 pm UTC (link)
Wow that was soooo....boring! No punchlines, no real character development, no drama, and really no point. If he just wanted to show examples of pros and cons of inter-racial dating he should have just stuck with a series of essays or soemthing.

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(no subject) - [info]lukita, 2006-11-20 04:11 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]skewed_tartan, 2006-11-20 07:38 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]rachel_pi, 2006-11-20 07:47 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]lukita, 2006-11-21 02:53 am UTC
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[info]lukita
2006-11-20 04:06 pm UTC (link)
I can read the words but they don't make any sense.

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redwarrior
2006-11-20 06:10 pm UTC (link)
Christ...people shouldn't CARE what race they're dating.

I want to headdesk now.

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(no subject) - [info]black_spot, 2006-11-20 10:42 pm UTC

[info]shallow_kid
2006-11-20 07:02 pm UTC (link)
What does it matter who you date, as long as you care about each other and have naked fun together? Calm down, Asian/White. Stop trying to be the new Black/White.

it is my firm belief that interracial dating dilutes our political strength

What.

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[info]sheep
2006-11-20 07:13 pm UTC (link)
"One of my [female] friends told me a white guy came up to her as she was sitting down at Upper Sproul Plaza and said, ‘You’ve got a nice rack!’ and then walked away," said Lee. "They would also tell me about how the white guys that do approach them are kinda dorky. That was how I created the dorky white guys strip."

Oh, yeah. I have those t-shirts.

Of course, one idiot said it when I was fourteen and my mother was walking a few paces behind me. My mother may not be religious, but she didn't half put the fear of God into him.

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(no subject) - [info]heddychaa, 2006-11-21 08:35 am UTC

[info]rachel_pi
2006-11-20 07:44 pm UTC (link)
I'm sorry, was that comic supposed to be boring and over-generalized?

I don't understand the storyline about the friend who married a white guy, her family hated him and then they got divorced because he cheated. Am I supposed to be on the family's side in that and think she should only date Asian guys?

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(no subject) - [info]black_spot, 2006-11-20 10:45 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]khym_chanur, 2006-11-21 01:11 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]cinnamonical, 2006-11-21 06:05 am UTC

[info]sepiamagpie
2006-11-20 09:46 pm UTC (link)
I'm not sure, but I'm getting the impression that the only solution is lesbianism or black/hispanic/indian(both kinds) guys, here.

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(no subject) - [info]puipui, 2006-11-21 03:09 am UTC

[info]digigirl132
2006-11-20 10:08 pm UTC (link)
Ah, I see. So you're supposed to make all life choices involving other people based on what race the other people are. Yeah. Heaven forbid you like someone because they're, yaknow, interesting or anything. Yep, it's all about race. *nods*

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[info]ridonkulous
2006-11-20 10:09 pm UTC (link)
I wonder where me (white girl) and my half Taiwanese boyfriend fall on the "Date or not date" scale. Except he's only half Asian so apparently he dosn't count. :/

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(no subject) - [info]ridonkulous, 2006-11-20 10:50 pm UTC
Nice timing,
[info]lottelita
2006-11-20 10:20 pm UTC (link)
since I just came across this hilarious short film:

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Re: Nice timing, - [info]lottelita, 2006-11-20 10:21 pm UTC
Re: Nice timing, - [info]heddychaa, 2006-11-21 10:13 am UTC
Re: Nice timing, - (Anonymous), 2006-11-24 09:14 am UTC

[info]innsmouth_eyes
2006-11-20 10:26 pm UTC (link)
Hey, cool, a new webcomic for me to not read. Damn that was unfunny.

As if we should even value Eugene’s opinion. Are you even Asian, because you look half Asian, which means you can’t fully understand the struggle of Asian American men and women.

I'd point out to this person that biracial people often have it tougher than full-blooded people due to the perception that they're somehow betraying both their races just by being alive, but it would be a waste of effort.

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(no subject) - [info]heddychaa, 2006-11-21 08:37 am UTC
(no subject) - (Anonymous), 2006-11-21 11:19 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]heddychaa, 2006-11-23 08:12 am UTC

(Anonymous)
2006-11-20 11:06 pm UTC (link)
SAM is funny. SAF is not.

(http://www.secretasianman.com/)

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[info]hyaenid
2006-11-21 12:53 am UTC (link)
Irony: Der mumster was the only person in her family to marry a white guy. She's also the only one of her sib who's never been divorced.

Obviously, according to OP's amazing logic skills, dating Asian men = recipe for broken homes homg.

Christ, what a moron.

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[info]khym_chanur
2006-11-21 01:21 am UTC (link)
That lame strip reminds me of an actually funny strip from Something Positive where some random white guy not hits on PeeJee, but mistakes her for being Japanese, and she tells him that Japanese women reproduce by having sex with tentacle monsters, or something. Damn, I wish I'd bookmarked it.

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[info]hobbitsexual
2006-11-21 02:44 am UTC (link)
I have to say I have heard/witnessed the white guy fetishising of asian women so many many many times and it is pretty grotesque... but i think it could be done much better than in this comic, yeah.

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