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Kah Roh Seh (![[info]](http://www.journalfen.net/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} kahrohseh) wrote in ![[info]](http://www.journalfen.net/img/community.gif){kind=small} otf_wank, |
00goddess: But, I still think callmesilver is a whiny bitch, who also happens to be batshit crazy.
tekanji: I in no way am defending callmesilver, but frankly your, and the other community member's use of "whiny bitch" makes me sick. That phrase is a hateful one towards all women, not just those who have conducted themselves badly.
I know polyamory is far from a safe space, but until this thread I always thought it to be pretty woman friendly. But, really, the gratuitous use of gendered slurs is making me feel very uncomfortable and very unwelcome.
So, wait. Your community is afflicted with real live horsefuckers, and the word "bitch" makes you uncomfortable and unwelcome in a world that has suddenly become cold and uncaring?
tekanji: I in no way am defending callmesilver, but frankly your, and the other community member's use of "whiny bitch" makes me sick. That phrase is a hateful one towards all women, not just those who have conducted themselves badly.
I know polyamory is far from a safe space, but until this thread I always thought it to be pretty woman friendly. But, really, the gratuitous use of gendered slurs is making me feel very uncomfortable and very unwelcome.
So, wait. Your community is afflicted with real live horsefuckers, and the word "bitch" makes you uncomfortable and unwelcome in a world that has suddenly become cold and uncaring?
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