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kahrohseh
2007-01-11 04:07 am UTC (link)

00goddess: But, I still think callmesilver is a whiny bitch, who also happens to be batshit crazy.
tekanji: I in no way am defending callmesilver, but frankly your, and the other community member's use of "whiny bitch" makes me sick. That phrase is a hateful one towards all women, not just those who have conducted themselves badly.
I know polyamory is far from a safe space, but until this thread I always thought it to be pretty woman friendly. But, really, the gratuitous use of gendered slurs is making me feel very uncomfortable and very unwelcome.

So, wait. Your community is afflicted with real live horsefuckers, and the word "bitch" makes you uncomfortable and unwelcome in a world that has suddenly become cold and uncaring?

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	serai 2007-01-11 05:25 am UTC (link)
	That one did make me giggle, rather. Talk about a hair-trigger sense of offendedness! (Reply to this)(Parent)

	dragonfangirl 2007-01-11 05:43 am UTC (link)
	I'm glad I wasn't the only one who thought that was wtf ridiculous. I mean, they didn't even call her a slut or a cunt or anything. If we can't call people bitches, what CAN we call them? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	isa 2007-01-11 07:11 am UTC (link)
	Stupidheads. ::sage nod:: (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	suzycat 2007-01-11 09:43 am UTC (link)
	I feel terribly unsafe now you have used the s-h word. I'd say it was triggering, but ... (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	isa 2007-01-11 09:54 pm UTC (link)
	...but then the horsefucking puns will win? (They're like terrorists, only yuckier.) (Reply to this)(Parent)

	sabinelagrande 2007-01-11 08:50 am UTC (link)
	This is how broken I am from this wank: I read, But, really, the gratuitous use of gendered animals* is making me feel very uncomfortable and very unwelcome.* I like it better. (Reply to this)(Parent)

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