No, you believe they're a lesser person because they said it due to the fact that you think you're a better person because you hold yourself "above" it.

And we wonder why Middle America hates the liberal coasts.

I feel like that was supposed to be a Logic Bomb. N.B., please, children: confusing =/= smart. Being "above" calling someone "ghey" because they called you ghey because you're above calling them ghey is ... aw, hell. My brain is melting.

i'm a good fit for them because i want to be there. i'm not applying anywhere else. that's it.

Obviously, the world should give you what you want, because it's what you want! Yay!