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Someone wrote in ![[info]](http://www.journalfen.net/img/community.gif){kind=small} otf_wank, |
Oh, hell no.
*Personal anecdote time*
1. I work with 13 year olds. I'm not a fan of generalisations, but none of them are mature/developed/whatever other words he used to have a relationship with someone in their twenties. No. Fucking. Way. They do not, in fact, look like they are 20 years old either, however hard and fast puberty has hit. They have not had the life experience of a 20 year old, they do not have the interpersonal skills of a 20 year old and they sure as hell do not have enough understanding of sex to be having it.
However advanced a 13 year old is, it will not change the fact that they are 13. Really, none of them will have the answer for, "Okay, I don't care if you do your homework. Do it or your subject teacher will give you a detention, your choice."
2. I had a relationship with an older guy when I was 13. Paedophile. Yeah, he didn't technically co-erce me into anything, but that isn't the point; I didn't have the knowledge to realise the situation was wrong. I thought I was a girl and her boyfriend, because 13 year olds are dumb. And if he hadn't broken up with me, I'm sure I'd still be hero-worshipping him with a warped mind to this very day.
3. He *actually* tells people about this on the internet?!
*Personal anecdote time*
1. I work with 13 year olds. I'm not a fan of generalisations, but none of them are mature/developed/whatever other words he used to have a relationship with someone in their twenties. No. Fucking. Way. They do not, in fact, look like they are 20 years old either, however hard and fast puberty has hit. They have not had the life experience of a 20 year old, they do not have the interpersonal skills of a 20 year old and they sure as hell do not have enough understanding of sex to be having it.
However advanced a 13 year old is, it will not change the fact that they are 13. Really, none of them will have the answer for, "Okay, I don't care if you do your homework. Do it or your subject teacher will give you a detention, your choice."
2. I had a relationship with an older guy when I was 13. Paedophile. Yeah, he didn't technically co-erce me into anything, but that isn't the point; I didn't have the knowledge to realise the situation was wrong. I thought I was a girl and her boyfriend, because 13 year olds are dumb. And if he hadn't broken up with me, I'm sure I'd still be hero-worshipping him with a warped mind to this very day.
3. He *actually* tells people about this on the internet?!
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