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	panthea 2007-03-12 03:17 am UTC (link)
	So having a hickey makes you immature, trampy, and Just Like The Nazis? Conveying all that information's a big job for such a small bruise. But of course, it's the very height of appropriate behavior to assume said bruise automatically = hickey in the first place. So, is it just me, or has the word "hickey" abruptly ceased to hold any meaning? (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	hallidae 2007-03-12 03:22 am UTC (link)
	Dude, what the hell? Maybe I'm overreacting, but all this talk of "hickey=trash/immature/insecure" makes me wonder how many of these people would buy or employ the short skirt defense. (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	vigilanterodent 2007-03-12 03:29 am UTC (link)
	You know, I never realized other people pay that much attention to strangers' necks. (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	ladybirdsleeps 2007-03-12 03:34 am UTC (link)
	Perhaps they should cut to the chase and just form a circle around yuuo, chanting "whore whore whore." -- and what brand of makeup are these people using? I wish I knew! I can never find any cover-up that both matches my skin tone and actually covers up. Especially not any that can withstand all the heat and steam at my workplace. (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	ecchaniz0r 2007-03-12 03:40 am UTC (link)
	The 'omg omg traaaampyyy omng but whine but WHINE she ASKED FOR IT' shit makes me want to grab the honkin' bigass bible from my high school chapel and beat people with it. For the irony factor. (Reply to this)

wanktastic
2007-03-12 03:40 am UTC (link)

Either the OP is overreacting or being too vague about what was actually said because anything like "enjoying your time off work?" isn't crude at all imho. Maybe a little too personal coming from a customer/stranger but otherwise it's fairly innocuous.

However, the commenters basically calling her a dirty h0r for even having hickeys need to stfu. They're hickeys for god's sake, not open and oozing syphilis sores.

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	iwanttobeasleep 2007-03-12 03:58 am UTC (link)
	[thoughts on hickies, whores, and cover up] (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	agent_hyatt 2007-03-12 03:58 am UTC (link)
	And all I can think is, "Have any of my rashes ever looked like hickeys?" Sympathy for the sensitive-skinned, yo. Some of us get irritated just from our hair. (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	zyna_kat 2007-03-12 04:02 am UTC (link)
	I think a lot of people here who are of an older generation (between the ages of like 25+) Er... I... uhm.... Oh dear. (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	tangentialone 2007-03-12 04:23 am UTC (link)
	Oh, and on a similar note, I think people who take their kids places are so trashy. I mean, it's like broadcasting to the world that you've had sex! (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	luthe 2007-03-12 04:38 am UTC (link)
	I see a hickey on someone's neck, whether they are at work or not, and I'm secretly jealous because they are getting more than me. But I'm not going to say anything about it. (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	chibikaijuu 2007-03-12 04:43 am UTC (link)
	I just saw this and ran over here to see if it had been posted. HOLY HELL. I mean, yeah, the OP seems to be overreacting a little bit, and yeah, hickeys are not the most professional of, um, accessories, but DAYUM, where did all the slinging of whore-bitch-tramp-slut come from? (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	dawnswalker 2007-03-12 04:51 am UTC (link)
	I don't know. I think the trampiness factor depends on where the hickey is. (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	sepiamagpie 2007-03-12 05:11 am UTC (link)
	I think this could all be avoided if we simply branded her with some bright red letter. (Reply to this)(Thread)

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cactuar_tamer
2007-03-12 05:24 am UTC (link)

It's funny how you can do all sorts of moronic things that put you in a position to for people to look down on you or mock you or take advantage of you, and it's usually very frowned upon by society for them to actually do so...

But the second you do something that hints that you maybe know what sex is, or maybe even had some and had the gall to enjoy the experience, well, then, it's "ZOMG U h0R!," and you deserve whatever you get.

BWUH?

I was really sitting on my hands to avoid joining in over there -_-

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	rimrunner 2007-03-12 05:30 am UTC (link)
	Wow. What the hell is wrong with the people on the comm? ...sorry. I'd try to be funny, but I'm too busy boggling. What the fuck. (Reply to this)

	frequentmouse 2007-03-12 05:46 am UTC (link)
	Also? The view I'm getting of heartshapedbox (and her idiot partial-leet nom de lj) does not include an extensive and joyful sex life. Just sayin' (Reply to this)(Thread)

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v_digitalwytch
2007-03-12 05:59 am UTC (link)

Wank over hickeys, not surprised about it, just surprised it's not made an appearance until now.

Back when I was in high school, hickeys were like a badge announcing that yes you had a someone attending to 'things'. Most memorable one I had was the one my then boyfriend plastered the length of my neck that almost had my Mom take me to the ER for fear of possible arterial damage because it was so dark and huge.

As time's gone on, at this point I'm past the age where there's any coolness with hickeys. I consider them tacky, but won't begrudge anyone showing them off. As long as one's happy, that's all that matters.

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so_long42
2007-03-12 06:07 am UTC (link)

I wouldn't say anything to anyone, but yes, it makes the person with the hickey look trampy. In the very least, it's a sign of sexual immaturity and at worst it's the sign of an insecure person/relationship.

Because it is, like, SO immature to enjoy someone kissing/nipping/biting your neck! Only tramps like something as kinky as that! People in secure realtionshps never leave hickies because hickies are always about branding your SO, and never the natural result of something that feels good. Seriosuly.

Also, anyone who thinks that people start covering their hicky's at age 16 has never been on a college campus.

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	joye 2007-03-12 06:12 am UTC (link)
	As a pale person, I approve this wank because it has given me Makeup Advice! Now, I need to test it out. wishes boyfriend wasn't on other side of continent (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	whimsy_chan 2007-03-12 06:24 am UTC (link)
	Everybody in this wank is stupid from the OP on down. Showing up at work with a visible hickey is both immature and unprofessional. Making sly comments about a stranger's visible hickey is immature and creepy. Calling someone a whore for having a visible hickey is immature and moronic. The world seems to be getting stupider by the day. Save me. D: (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	ealusaid 2007-03-12 06:44 am UTC (link)
	Dammit, now I want a hickey. (Reply to this)(Thread)

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	dragonfangirl 2007-03-12 07:08 am UTC (link)
	Jesus god, it's not like she came in to work drunk or something, you know, actually inappropriate. Or having sex at work. But apparently if you have sexual (or nonsexual) relations with anyone else ever, you've been tainted. (Reply to this)

rhosyn_du
2007-03-12 11:01 am UTC (link)

What I learned from this wank:

having a hickey makes you a tramp
~~peeing on things~~ giving your partner a hickey constitutes territorial marking
twenty-five is old
people working food service have enough money to spend on Chanel make-up
there are a disturbing number of people who believe that "iawtc" constitutes a meaningful contribution to a discussion

Thank you,

customers_suck, for enlightening me on these truly important matters.

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	gun 2007-03-12 11:20 am UTC (link)
	Am I the only person here who thinks that giving hickeys out of spite is a great way to get back at someone for previous wrongdoings? Or is the spite-hickey only a regional thing here amongst the dumb twentysomethings? (Reply to this)(Thread)