Is it OK with the Hive Vagina if I think they're both being repetitive jerks? Because yes, lapsarianwhatever can't seem to get her thumb out of her ass to take off her "I'm right even when that wasn't what I really meant!" glasses, but tomcatti seems to be one of those "I'm too nice to have a date" geeks. No, you have no dates because you don't ask for any. I won't speculate as to the deep deep depth of his emotions, though I suspect people who can't manage to say "crush" much less "love" and have to make do with "like, I mean really really LIKE," but, boy, you can love those lovely young friends of yours as much as you want or more than you can ever say, but if you do nothing about it, they will try to find someone who will. And you'll be posting inane emo graphics on postsecret. When you're eighty.