Pretentious and ignorant! But there's something missing...

For sensitivity; how could you possibly know that there is something severely wrong with my husband and that it is the beginning of the end and I know it, so does he, and so do my adult children?

Hell. I'm looking at a twelve-hour shift as a ringer in a facility that is in trouble and my husband might be dead and I am arguing with, what would you call yourself in all honesty right now?

And there it is! Appeals to sympathy after one has been an asshat. We have a wank hat trick!