From what I can discern, this is what happened: two friends and occasional fuck buddies have a falling out as people do. However, as these two are Internet celebrities, the catfight involves their websites. Unfortunately, at least one party seems to have forgotten how the Internet works in the fit of irrational butthurt.

<speculation>Given VB's stalker comments, it could be possible that Xeni may have expressed a desire for more than just "occasional fuck buddy" status and been rebuffed. At least, that's what "stalker" usually means where I'm from. I still don't know how Cory Doctorow fits in to all of this, though.</speculation>

So, this is basically defriending wank on a "serious" blog, I take it. At least, that's what it sounds like. Perfect reading for my LJ flist. "OMG U HORBITCH HOW CUD U DO THIS 2 MEEEEE?" and all that stuff, it's just funny.