Wow. I'm glad I stayed in Korea until it was time to go home for my wedding and let everybody else do what they wanted to do. I only made my wedding dress, and told the folks back home of the groom that I wanted carrot cake and not that godawful tasteless white cake that the bakers flog off as "traditional". Getting through the pre-marital counselling in the two weeks I had before the ceremony was the most complicated part.