My husband and I had a wedding with a ceremony and a reception and pictures and cake and everything, yet it wasn't some dramafest freakout because we aren't that kind of people. I don't buy into the ~*~OMGSPESHULESTDAYEV4R!!!!!~*~ crap, nor am I batshit crazy and self-obsessed. The bridesmaids' dresses didn't match, the flowers were silk (and I got them on clearance!), my sister was drunk and shouted 'I'm Rick James, bitch!' during the reception and everyone had a good time. It was just a big party with everyone in nicer-than-usual clothes.