You are either fundamentally dishonest or mentally ill.

Yup, that's the 00goddess LJ pagandom and poly-dom has known and loathed for years and years now. She was such a regular wanker in the Pagan comms for a while that you could practically set your clock by her, then she kinda pulled back and just did the poly stuff because, IIRC, LJ Pagans were "too stupid" for her elitist self. I especially love how anyone who disagrees with her is grudgey-- well shit, you run around LJ burning bridges with everyone you engage with, people start disliking you. Imagine that!