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Katarzyna ([info]zyna_kat) wrote in [info]otf_wank,
@ 2009-08-28 11:57:00


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Entry tags:we will share about our bras now

The Great Internet Bra Debate
How dirty is your bra?

Someone sent a letter to Dear Prudence asking if his girlfriend was normal because she's worn the same bra every day for two weeks. Prudie gives her usual inadequate and perplexing answer, starting with:

Perhaps your worries about hygiene arise from watching too much soft-core porn in which women get in the shower and soap their breasts for extended periods.

Reader comments range everywhere from ick:

I always wear a clean bra each day, just like I wear clean underwear EACH DAY. I've never heard of such a thing in my life as wearing the same clothes every day for weeks on end, especially not undergarments. And no, I'm not "filthy" rich. I grew up in a single wide trailer with extremely poor, hardworking parents, who taught me the value of SOAP and daily bathing.

to double standard!

Am I the only perosn who sees the endless gender-based double standard in society today? If this question was posed by a woman with a boyfriend who wore the same boxers for a week, the response would have centered around the boyfriend's level of evolution.

to several comments about how bras are expensive and wear out in the wash, bras don't get as dirty as undies, several comments asking how the guy knows she doesn't wash it, maybe she has several bras that look exactly the same, and there's even an informal poll asking how long people wear bras between washings. One of the best answers to the poll:

15 minutes. i have to take it off before me wife comes back



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[info]coffeebun
2009-08-29 02:21 am UTC (link)
I'm just boggling at how people actually put their bras in washing machines.

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[info]eleutheria
2009-08-29 02:59 am UTC (link)
I put my bra in the washing machine. Why shouldn't I? It's all cotton and has no metal parts. It's no different than washing a t-shirt.

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[info]coffeebun
2009-08-29 03:04 am UTC (link)
Whenever I do, it stretches and wears out pretty quickly, so I tend to handwash mine.

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[info]eleutheria
2009-08-29 03:05 am UTC (link)
Mine are pretty indestructible. I've had the same brand for over 15 years, and never had a problem machine-washing them.

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[info]coffeebun
2009-08-29 03:14 am UTC (link)
What brand is that?? It sounds pretty awesome.

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[info]eleutheria
2009-08-29 05:01 am UTC (link)
They are awesome, the only thing wrong with them is that they don't support as well as a regular, underwire, commercial bra. But they are hella comfy. Decent Exposures-- they're hand-made, customizable, and made by women for women. (I know, I sound like I'm shilling for them, lol. Their bras saved me from migraines and pain, so I'm a grateful customer.)

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[info]notbulgarian
2009-08-30 07:30 pm UTC (link)
Which make are yours, because my bog-standard Marks and Spencers £6 a shot bras stand up to the washing machine.

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[info]gold_bluepoint
2009-08-29 03:02 am UTC (link)
Alas, some of us have no choice. *lives in a dorm with shared, coed bathrooms*

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[info]coffeebun
2009-08-29 03:09 am UTC (link)
Oh yeah, I didn't think of that.

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[info]gold_bluepoint
2009-08-29 03:12 am UTC (link)
Yeah, people walking through the bathroom stare at me enough when I'm in there dyeing my hair, no one needs to walk in on me giving my underwear a soak in one of the crusty old toothpastey sinks. ;)

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[info]aliaras
2009-09-16 01:51 am UTC (link)
Awww, your dorm sounds easy to weird out. I also had coed bathrooms (last year, this year I'm in an apartment) and we had all kinds of crazy shenanigans going on at times. Like the bathroom party in which some guys were shaving their head, I was henna-ing a friend of mine's skin, and someone else was dyeing her hair.

All the same, I'm not sure that extended to clothes-washing. I tried handwashing a dress of mine in the sink and got some strange looks.

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[info]insanityprelude
2009-09-16 06:46 am UTC (link)
Weirdest thing that's happened in ours was my friend shaving her head, but this is also the "quiet" girls' dorm here (our nickname is the Nunnery... so yeah...)

But I imagine I'd get some weird looks if I were washing my bras in the sinks too. I'm not sure I'd want to wash something in the sinks.

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[info]rachelmap
2009-08-29 04:57 am UTC (link)
I wash mine in a machine, but I wouldn't if I didn't have laundry bags. Also: delicate cycle, cold water and no chlorine bleach. My bras last from one to three years, depending on original quality and how much I wear them.

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[info]sionja
2009-08-29 05:32 am UTC (link)
I throw mine in the regular wash (cold wash, tumble dry). But I also buy Cacique bras pretty much exclusively because they're a) well constructed and last me years even with the abuse I hurl at them and b) one of the only companies that make my size.

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[info]frequentmouse
2009-08-29 05:10 pm UTC (link)
But I also buy Cacique bras pretty much exclusively

Oh, gawd, yes.

I'm reading this in bemusement- I'm allergic to my own sweat andcan only wear a bra once or I break out in welts; Cacique has a boneless style with a whole lot of engineered interior panels so I don't have to wear an underwire that love. I buy them off the clearance rack, mostly, which means I get a whole lot of weird stuff (one is turquoise, purple, charcoal grey and red stripes) but they're comfortable and machine washable.

When there's a twofer sale I break down and buy white or pale pink or peach to wear under pastel shirts. It's basically the only reason I keep a Lane Bryant card, because lately all their clothes are made of plastic and their jeans sizes are from Vulcan orsomething.

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[info]inalasahl
2009-08-30 12:36 am UTC (link)
It's basically the only reason I keep a Lane Bryant card, because lately all their clothes are made of plastic and their jeans sizes are from Vulcan orsomething.
Seriously. They need to get new buyers or something. The place has really changed in the last few years. I went in there to find a last-minute dress for a semi-formal occasion. There were none that weren't completely bizarre (plastic, leather and denim) for the occasion. I *finally* spotted a normal-ish skirt (it was a normal fabric and a nice color, but it had ruffles), and asked the saleswoman what tops they had that went with it. She said they didn't have anything at all in the whole store that could be matched with it. Misunderstanding, I told her it didn't have to be a perfect match, a white top would do just fine. She told me they didn't have a white top, of any kind. My brain kind of broke, at that point.

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[info]frequentmouse
2009-08-30 01:17 am UTC (link)
Weird stuff: silk summer dress with polyester slip lining, so it doesn't breathe. Added to that, in a store where the smallest bra size is a C, the dress was cut for an A or B cup.

I did get a nifty stretch linen vest there on deep clearance, but I wouldn't have bought it full price: $69!

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[info]evilsqueakers
2009-08-30 02:43 am UTC (link)
It's basically the only reason I keep a Lane Bryant card, because lately all their clothes are made of plastic and their jeans sizes are from Vulcan orsomething.

I live in my jeans from LB and I can usually get about 1.5 years out of each pair. I get the Right Size thingy because it gives me the flared to not make my already large hips and stomach look less than scary. I just used their buy one, half off sale the other week. I enjoy their underwear, too...but I have enough I could open a store from their 5 for 25 sales.

And that's all I buy there. For my tops, I hit Torrid's graphic tees and the rest from Style & Co at Macy's. I like simple clothes. Or the men's section at Wally World. Cause I don't like looking as if the applique monster threw up all over my chest. I already DDDs. I don't need any "here they are" hints.

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[info]frequentmouse
2009-08-30 08:39 pm UTC (link)
I hate having to try on a bunch of garments to find what fits best (plus: don't drive, totally fucked knee which interferes with my bus riding, shopping jammed into the few hours a month I have transportation) and the new LB jeans sizes pretty much require an initial try-on binge.

Oh, yeah: The Bon's Macy's clearance racks are my prime source of tops and my current crop of jeans are mostly from a special collection (Smith's) that was a Style&Co offshoot- I bought them for ca$6 apiece because they were oversized and crocked indigo like whoa and people returned them in hoards. My outer wardrobe is based on Gilda Radner's first principal of fashion (what doesn't itch) and the 75% off rack at Macy's.

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[info]pingin_tango
2009-08-31 01:59 am UTC (link)
Love the 75% off rack. The Macy's in a near town has this little annex that is nothing but 75% off. My boyfriend stocked up for a trip and got $400 worth of clothes for just over $100. I picked up a nice shirt and a couple long sleeved guys shirts, only shirts that cover the base of my hands.

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[info]quinctia
2009-08-29 05:33 pm UTC (link)
The only time I've had an issue with putting a bra in the washing machine was when there was any sort of padding/thick lining between the inner and outer fabric layers. It just bunches. Of course, I haven't had a bra with enough padding to do that since I was about 14, when I was a B cup.

I wash everything on cold, I do put it in a lingerie bag, and I tend not to wash more than two at a time.

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[info]tachikoma01
2009-08-30 03:15 am UTC (link)
I find that most non-ornamental bras (basic bras, sports bras, non-underwire) do just fine if you do the 'handwash' cycle with cold water and don't submit them to the mercy of Mistress Dryer.

Ornamental or padded ones, though, are a different story. Especially anything with lace on it. Lace just has zero durability in machine washer factor. And I've actually gotten rust stains from an underwire... but I hate the way underwires dig into my skin anyway, and if they're my ONLY choice, I remove the metal parts ASAP.

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[info]aycelcus
2009-09-01 07:14 am UTC (link)
I get my bras from Intimacy (the only place I can bloody find a 32 H. Holy frell, when did I turn into pornstar boobies? *weeps*) And I wash them in the washer with all of my regular clothes and in the dryer thry go. The only thing that wears out for me on them is the underwires, which will snap in two after about a year and a half of use. And every bra I've ever owned has done that, so I'm thinking its not them, it's me.

Hell, the only clothes I wash separately and by hand or on the delicate cycle are the costumes! I've long been of the opinion that if it can't last in the washer, I don't need to be wearing it.

/lazy.

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[info]tofuknight
2009-09-01 09:23 pm UTC (link)
Holy shit of awesome, where is your icon from? For lo, I do love me some rat icons.

I guiltily must agree on the lazy thing. when I have the time and energy, I hang my bras out to dry, but if I'm having a bad week (about 50-60% of the time) it's in the dryer with everything else, because damn it, I need things dry.

Then again, I'm a chemical trace and am comfortable in Victoria's Secret bras. *hides*

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[info]aycelcus
2009-09-02 03:10 am UTC (link)
My icon is actually my rat Mamabear in her princess dress halter I made, being held by a perplexed Darth Vader at Dragoncon 2008. I have all sorts of pics of her being held by the denizens of the con: the Predator, Alien, a WoW quest-giver, a geisha, Chewbacca...

It was an awesome time. ^_^

And I haven't been a Victoria Secrets size since college. Lo, the boobies are large and unforgiving.

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