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Katarzyna ([info]zyna_kat) wrote in [info]otf_wank,
@ 2009-08-28 11:57:00


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Entry tags:we will share about our bras now

The Great Internet Bra Debate
How dirty is your bra?

Someone sent a letter to Dear Prudence asking if his girlfriend was normal because she's worn the same bra every day for two weeks. Prudie gives her usual inadequate and perplexing answer, starting with:

Perhaps your worries about hygiene arise from watching too much soft-core porn in which women get in the shower and soap their breasts for extended periods.

Reader comments range everywhere from ick:

I always wear a clean bra each day, just like I wear clean underwear EACH DAY. I've never heard of such a thing in my life as wearing the same clothes every day for weeks on end, especially not undergarments. And no, I'm not "filthy" rich. I grew up in a single wide trailer with extremely poor, hardworking parents, who taught me the value of SOAP and daily bathing.

to double standard!

Am I the only perosn who sees the endless gender-based double standard in society today? If this question was posed by a woman with a boyfriend who wore the same boxers for a week, the response would have centered around the boyfriend's level of evolution.

to several comments about how bras are expensive and wear out in the wash, bras don't get as dirty as undies, several comments asking how the guy knows she doesn't wash it, maybe she has several bras that look exactly the same, and there's even an informal poll asking how long people wear bras between washings. One of the best answers to the poll:

15 minutes. i have to take it off before me wife comes back



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[info]chikane
2009-08-29 04:56 pm UTC (link)
Am I the only one thinking this answer-person answered like this because the one asking her sounded like a total douche?

I'd be tempted to answer exactly the same, even though my own washing period for a bra is [4 detailed TMI-paragraphs describing in excessive detail how often and why, because everyone wants to know]

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[info]ivalice
2009-08-29 06:58 pm UTC (link)
You're definitely not the only one.

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[info]gold_bluepoint
2009-08-29 09:23 pm UTC (link)
Definitely not. A "psychological issue"? Really?

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[info]vzg
2009-09-05 12:31 am UTC (link)
Pretty much, yeah. If someone is basically looking for her to tell them how amazingly right they are, she will not do it.

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