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Katarzyna ([info]zyna_kat) wrote in [info]otf_wank,
@ 2009-08-28 11:57:00


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Entry tags:we will share about our bras now

The Great Internet Bra Debate
How dirty is your bra?

Someone sent a letter to Dear Prudence asking if his girlfriend was normal because she's worn the same bra every day for two weeks. Prudie gives her usual inadequate and perplexing answer, starting with:

Perhaps your worries about hygiene arise from watching too much soft-core porn in which women get in the shower and soap their breasts for extended periods.

Reader comments range everywhere from ick:

I always wear a clean bra each day, just like I wear clean underwear EACH DAY. I've never heard of such a thing in my life as wearing the same clothes every day for weeks on end, especially not undergarments. And no, I'm not "filthy" rich. I grew up in a single wide trailer with extremely poor, hardworking parents, who taught me the value of SOAP and daily bathing.

to double standard!

Am I the only perosn who sees the endless gender-based double standard in society today? If this question was posed by a woman with a boyfriend who wore the same boxers for a week, the response would have centered around the boyfriend's level of evolution.

to several comments about how bras are expensive and wear out in the wash, bras don't get as dirty as undies, several comments asking how the guy knows she doesn't wash it, maybe she has several bras that look exactly the same, and there's even an informal poll asking how long people wear bras between washings. One of the best answers to the poll:

15 minutes. i have to take it off before me wife comes back



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[info]quartz
2009-09-09 07:00 am UTC (link)
I'm amazed at the outlet stores in Chehalis. They're some of the better ones I've ever found. Plus there's the added bonus that I get to hit ShopKo on my way south. Ah ShopKo, bringer of cheap shirts and bedding, how I wish you were closer.

South > north! Far less traffic, better parking, better prices, less gross commercia lism* (until north of Everett at least). I may be biased though since I'm Tacoma born and raised and currently working in Seattle while living in Federal Way. Ugh, Olympia was so nice when I was working there, even if I did have to deal with base traffic coming back north.

Oooo Yen Ching's you say? *makes note to visit* Anywhere else you'd recommend?

*This is apparently a JF flagged spam word, hence the extra space

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[info]tez
2009-09-09 07:18 am UTC (link)
I LOVE the Chehalis outlet stores, I just rarely end up leaving the city unless I absolutely have to. So that means I don't get to Chehalis as often as I get to Tacoma or Seattle; I have relatives up there so I end up making the trip north far more often. I PREFER to be down here for living purposes though. I hate commutes; I was commuting from Oly to Tacoma for a while and that? Sorta blew.

Yen Ching's. South Tacoma Way, in the Korean part of town; it's across the street from the shopping center the old Pal-Do World market was in before they moved to that HUGE new building a mile or so down the street. Little strip mall, tucked off to the side, you'd totally miss it if you didn't know what you were looking for, and I could seriously devour their Chinese food all damn day long. Served family style too which is the only good way to do it.

(If you're up north, I HIGHLY recommend Snappy Dragon in Northgate if you haven't discovered them already. One word: POTSTICKERS.)

Those are my two favorite Chinese joints, no contest. I just wish they were closer; there's no good Chinese within walking distance of work and that's where I'd expect it to be since I'm downtown. I can get everything BUT the Chinese. Wah.

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[info]quartz
2009-09-09 07:31 am UTC (link)
Ah, yeah, visiting people always seems to have a higher priority than just going shopping or sightseeing. The Chehalis outlet stores were unknown to me until I was down there getting half a pig this spring and happened to glance out the window and see the Lane Bryant store sign.

Olympia always seems to be much more laid back and friendly than the Tacoma/Seattle area. I think it has something to do with the (relative) proximity to the soothing ocean and its vast beaches. It was always pleasant to drive down there for work or visiting even though I drove from Tacoma and not once did I ever come back more stressed than I left because of bad traffic or rude jerks. Too bad I've pretty much worked myself into a career that'll keep me in the Seattle/Kirkland area and there's no high-speed mass transit rail line planned from Oly to Seattle. An hour commute now is bad enough, I can't imagine a 2/2.5 hour each way commute!

Yay! New food places to try! Thank you thank you!

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