Does she honestly not get that people probably did not report her personally to LJ Abuse

That was my first thought as well, and I really don't think she does.

Also, she complains that only one person contacted her, but in a lot of the comms I've been in, if one person says they've contacted the mod, other people will not send an e-mail as well, because that'd just be pointlessly deluging the mod's e-mail. Her logic is not only not of this earth, I'm not sure it's in the solar system.