Yeah, I've been through most of that list. Alas, except for Indiana and Missouri, they seem to be either really interdisciplinary programs, where I'd have to more-or less patch my own curriculum together out of different departments - which I'm fairly sure would not work for me at all, I need a firm path to follow (which may just mean I'm not ready for grad school at all, dunno) - or they focus tightly on an area I'm not interested in.

I've been looking at Indiana but I suspect I have zero chance of getting in. I'm also considering just going for history or maybe archeology with a concentration on folk traditions, because while folklore topics are what call to me, methodology-wise I'm much more interested in searching through archives and artifacts than having to talk to actual people in person, brrr.