Re: Sorry for getting all unfunnybusiness...
Her points about paying attention to her body and exercising are good. It's the fact that it's all mixed up in weight loss where I think she goes astray, and where I think it will be seriously triggering for some people. (It's triggering for me, so I hope I'm not coming off as mean or frothing.) It's great that her libido is higher now -- but I had a period of time when I had no libido as well. But then I and my "overweight" self and my "obese" fiance started to have the most amazing sex life, better than anything I'd ever dreamed back when I was thin and athletic and having sex with thin and athletic guys. I could make a few generalizations (we trusted each other completely and said fuck you to body image issues), but considering what our particular sex life involved otherwise, I would never say what we did would definitely work for most other people. Because it most definitely would not.

I say "had" because our sex life has tanked because I have three herniated disks from taking a dive while chasing a cat. I look back at body image issues I used to have before the amazing sex with my fiance, and I realize how lucky I was then.