Actually, I recently read a letter to a advice columnist (I want to say Dan Savage? Except I hate Dan Savage. But every once it awhile I steal a peek and read back until I become enraged, so maybe). A man wanted to know how to meet women who met his fetish - apparently they need be waxed completely bald, and also to have a huge clit.

OK, the second is difficult to bring up in casual first date conversation ("say, have you ever compared yourself to other ladies in the gym shower?"). But I can't picture being so attached to my pubic hair that I wouldn't wax for a guy I actually loved who genuinely needed it to become aroused.