Your reactions to criticism has made it hard to take you and your apologies seriously and have been offensive. It's not just rape that you've taken lightly. I do understand that you knew even before that rape and STIs are serious things, but those are definitely not things to joke about. It's best to step away from the computer screen before commenting immediately and then apologize or not comment which I know is difficult if you are dogpiled (justifiably in this case) IMO.

I know I'm being preachy, but good luck with avoiding this sort of thing in the future. I'm sorry for the transphobia and threats you've experienced.