I'm never going to understand this weird thing that people have that no one can call them on their stupid stuff because they liked it when they made it.

Same here. "I don't find it offensive/I'M not upset by it/I didn't MEEEEAN to offend anybody, therefore nobody else should be either stop taking it so seriously guys :)))))" No, that's placing the onus on the offended party to just not be offended, rather than taking responibility for doing/saying an offensive thing.