Or she knew and didn't care. That would be prototypical rapist behaviour and, in my experience, is how these things play out. Knew it was unwanted behaviour, found amusement and/or pleasure in someone else's discomfort or suffering, believed the behaviour was okay because access to another's body was "owed," etc. Or so goes the list of reasons my abusers presented me with, save the part about, you know, "I'm getting off on your fear."