(I also think this is what people -- i.e., sparkymonster -- is trying hard not to process/deal with, because if you accept that what happened to Jack did, in fact, happen, then you're left with the usual explanations of behaviour on the part of rapists. They are not comforting thoughts. People who know Kynn seem to not want to go there because, again, But she's a good person, really! She can change!)