Yeah, the weasel wording was pretty gross. I'm also taken aback by the number of other people linking to Sparkymonster's post uncritically. I'm hoping the whole 'but I'm not going to call Kynn a ~rapist' wasn't in there when they first linked, because otherwise all the links and lauding are really troubling to me.

As a survivor, Sparkymonster's comments are the kind of support I WOULD NOT WANT OR NEED. The comments were offensive and hurtful to rape survivors who have to (or have had to) struggle with being heard while their abuser is always given the benefit of the doubt. Seriously, rape culture much? I'd really like Sparkymonster to rethink those comments.