Yeah, I feel the same way, but I do get where you were coming from with the bad wording. (What I was trying to word is still a whole jumble that I still haven't sorted out, but it had a chunk of "I don't like the idea of a 'lower standard' with this," plus that I also feel the people who seek to define what is and isn't acceptable should adhere to their own rules, or everything falls down; I just hold most people who try to define what's acceptable to that standard. I get this weird feeling that I'm word-salading rn.)