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dere (![[info]](http://www.journalfen.net/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} dere) wrote in ![[info]](http://www.journalfen.net/img/community.gif){kind=small} unfunny_fandom, |
Re: More on BDSM aspects of the case
Amen to all of that. I'm glad I haven't personally encountered anyone outright saying "oh, if they were in a D/s relationship then it couldn't be rape" because then my brain would explode or something sticky like that. The whole breast-touching thing skeeved me out as much as the rape* because it all comes together in this whole ugly bundle of fuck-yer-boundaries that is so horrible IDEK what to do except go DO NOT WANT and scrub my brain out with fanfic and bleach in between attempts to engage.
*not saying their impact on Jack was equivalent, just that they carry close to the same weight for me in terms of hearing about boundary-abuse
Amen to all of that. I'm glad I haven't personally encountered anyone outright saying "oh, if they were in a D/s relationship then it couldn't be rape" because then my brain would explode or something sticky like that. The whole breast-touching thing skeeved me out as much as the rape* because it all comes together in this whole ugly bundle of fuck-yer-boundaries that is so horrible IDEK what to do except go DO NOT WANT and scrub my brain out with fanfic and bleach in between attempts to engage.
*not saying their impact on Jack was equivalent, just that they carry close to the same weight for me in terms of hearing about boundary-abuse
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