Re: More on BDSM aspects of the case
Thanks for the clarification. I assumed there was some negotiated D/s relationship there by accident. Not that it made any real difference in my personal evaluations because of my experience with vanilla and D/s relationships. If anything, I expect D/s relationships to be held to a higher standard because you're theoretically within a system that attempts to step outside the socially prescribed structures/boundaries for relating and replaces those with negotiation and communication.