I hope Jack gets the help he needs, I hope he comes out of this okay. My heart is with him. I'd let him know but, you know, I know that's not always helpful. So I'll give my support from afar.

All of this. My heart goes out to Jack and I hope he comes through this all right.

If there's one bit of good news in all of this, it does seem like he's got a good and loving partner in alexandraerin, who's been really supportive and proactive about looking for the kind of help that will actually help. Even the best partner isn't enough to make this sort of thing painless, but it's certainly better than dealing with this alone.