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jackandahat (![[info]](http://www.journalfen.net/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} jackandahat) wrote in ![[info]](http://www.journalfen.net/img/community.gif){kind=small} unfunny_fandom, |
Alexandra said - I think in Shetterly's post - that it was an attempt to negotiate boundaries.
Which, yeah. An advantage to kink is there's more structure for negotiating than in vanilla, it's more expected, but that only works if the person you're "negotiating" with is a decent human being.
Which, yeah. An advantage to kink is there's more structure for negotiating than in vanilla, it's more expected, but that only works if the person you're "negotiating" with is a decent human being.
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