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Sunhawk (![[info]](http://www.journalfen.net/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} sunhawk) wrote in ![[info]](http://www.journalfen.net/img/community.gif){kind=small} unfunny_fandom, |
She also posted here:
http://elf.dreamwidth.org/436139.html?t
And summed up the rape situation as "fucked up relationship is fucked up drama relationship" - well I wonder why people are telling her that she's perpetuating rape culture, could it possibly be because SHE IS??? Noooo....surely not....
The way she continues to try to suggest that Jack was equally at fault and it's just freaky strange BDSM relationship "drama" is just disgusting. Saying stuff like this:
"My gut said "WTF, bail out!" for both of them - they seemed to be feeding off of each other."
"Right now I really think they all are in serious need of professional help.
Just.... Ewww."
"Truthfully, I don't have warm fuzzy feelings about any of them right now, probably due to some of my issues with passive-aggressive manipulation, emotional herding, and that type of emotional garbage that hits my buttons. But that's my problem."
"So I tend to question the motives of people who want to tear down someone who is fighting for things I believe in, even if that person does, ultimately, turn out to be a troubled person who doesn't respect boundaries and gets into nasty, messy, screwed up, abusive relationships, or even turns out to be a genuine douchebag in their personal life.
Because piling on feels like giving aid and comfort to the enemy, even when the person in question really needs a cold dose of reality to the face. "
All of this weasel "they are both equally to blame" phrasing turns my stomach.
http://elf.dreamwidth.org/436139.html?t
And summed up the rape situation as "fucked up relationship is fucked up drama relationship" - well I wonder why people are telling her that she's perpetuating rape culture, could it possibly be because SHE IS??? Noooo....surely not....
The way she continues to try to suggest that Jack was equally at fault and it's just freaky strange BDSM relationship "drama" is just disgusting. Saying stuff like this:
"My gut said "WTF, bail out!" for both of them - they seemed to be feeding off of each other."
"Right now I really think they all are in serious need of professional help.
Just.... Ewww."
"Truthfully, I don't have warm fuzzy feelings about any of them right now, probably due to some of my issues with passive-aggressive manipulation, emotional herding, and that type of emotional garbage that hits my buttons. But that's my problem."
"So I tend to question the motives of people who want to tear down someone who is fighting for things I believe in, even if that person does, ultimately, turn out to be a troubled person who doesn't respect boundaries and gets into nasty, messy, screwed up, abusive relationships, or even turns out to be a genuine douchebag in their personal life.
Because piling on feels like giving aid and comfort to the enemy, even when the person in question really needs a cold dose of reality to the face. "
All of this weasel "they are both equally to blame" phrasing turns my stomach.
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