I just don't want people telling me how I should be offended by something because I am disabled.

Obviously there are things that we don't do like call Obama the N word or his wife the C word, or ZQ a fag. These are people with feelings.

I use words like lame because it's about context. "That stupid shirt is so lame" is not a slight against you. It's a slight against a shirt.

Abled bodied people using the disabled bathroom stall? Fuck that chick.
Abled bodied people using the handicapped parking? Fuck that guy.
Abled bodied people sitting on disabled seats on the bus? When old or pregnant or disabled people stand? Fuck you, sitter.
Teenagers calling Lady Gaga's new single lame? Not offended.
A cute pony on a cartoon show that happens to have some unfortunate fanon background? Nope. Not offended.