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Ha-chan ([info]agent_hyatt) wrote in [info]unfunny_fandom,
@ 2012-02-26 16:49:00


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Lessons from bronies: Removing ableist stereotypes is intolerant!
Remember the backlash when an episode of My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic portrayed fan-favorite Ditzy/"Derpy" as "humorously" mentally challenged? Well, the concerns were heard, and the voice changed!

Aaaaand now some bronies are crying "ruined FOREVER!". To the tune of "not liking our insensitivity is intolerant!"

So, everyone who can now watch the clip without cringeing, you're harshing someone's squee, and that's terrible.


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[info]chikane
2012-02-27 08:48 am UTC (link)
I personally find the erasure of a disability more ablest than anything.

Are you one of those people that argue that a homophobic portrayal of a gay character (who of course ends up murdered for his gayness, which turns out is his fault) is totally ok and that complaining about it is somehow worse than having such a character because OMGERASURE?

Because that's what you're doing. That's the level your argument is on. Good job being a walking, breathing logical fallacy.

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[info]anarchicq
2012-02-27 09:02 am UTC (link)
No.

Of course people shouldn't be murdered/killed off because they're gay and of course being gay isn't a choice and certainly not anyone's fault. I would have problems with the gay-bashing/murdering characters, the characters calling the homosexual character derogatory names and so forth.

BUT I also find it annoying when someone who is not part of a thing (gay/non-white/disabled) gets offended on the part of the people who ARE that thing. As a straight girl I have less of a right to get upset about the portrayal of gays on the media then actual gays because I have not lived as they have lived or faced the same stereotypes, bigotry or misunderstandings.

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[info]chikane
2012-02-27 09:22 am UTC (link)

BUT I also find it annoying when someone who is not part of a thing (gay/non-white/disabled) gets offended


Most of the people that complained were "part of the thing".

It's interesting how people immediately pretend otherwise, though.

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[info]sepiamagpie
2012-02-27 09:29 am UTC (link)
You know a lot of the people who are hurt by the Derpy thing are actually disabled, right?

IN FACT, some people disagreeing with you right now are disabled! Sandglass, for instance. Who you kept dismissing. Just throwing that out there, defender of the derp.

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[info]sandglass
2012-02-27 09:45 am UTC (link)
Personally I'm generally happy when a man/straight person/abled person/etc gets offended on my behalf. Takes the onus off of minorities to always be pointing out when something is oppressive, y'know? But then I don't think it's better to have a bigoted, gross, anti-disabled portrayal of a disabled character is better than not having a disabled character at all (and I think it's more important to be able to back up your argument with facts and knowledge than just your identity), so clearly anarchicq and I are coming from drastically different perspectives.

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[info]sepiamagpie
2012-02-27 09:48 am UTC (link)
Dickishness is dickishness, no matter if it's the Emperor or the little kid pointing it out.

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[info]cmdr_zoom
2012-02-27 11:37 am UTC (link)
It should be acknowledged that sometimes, as with the recent "shack" debacle reported in a sister comm, there are a few people just looking to be righteous and offended on someone else's behalf as an excuse to beat on someone else with the SJ stick.

Do I think that's what's happening here? Hell no.

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[info]wankaholic
2012-02-28 03:02 am UTC (link)
Depending on the context, I'm generally pretty happy about having someone not of the group in question stand up for me, too. Like, hey, I don't have to educate stupid white people about racism because there is someone else there going, "Uh, dude, what's wrong with you?"

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[info]ekaterinv
2012-02-28 03:33 am UTC (link)
I am also quite happy when I see anyone say and do the right thing, no matter their race/gender/sexual orientation/religion/size/ability/etc. The basis of morality is doing stuff that helps other people, not just yourself.

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[info]anarchicq
2012-02-27 05:20 pm UTC (link)
I realize that. I am disabled as well, I have (Among many other things) Coloboma in my right eye and it is malformed and "lazy". If I had seen this pony when I was a kid I would have been all kinds of "WOOHOO! Pony be representin'!" because she looks like me. When I was a kid, the 'disabled kid' was always in a wheelchair. That wasn't me. But we're adults and we're projecting our own sense of morals and right or wrong and things onto a kid's cartoon. And instead of having the chance in the future to do an episode about disability, giving both Hasbro a chance to redeem themselves, and a hopefully good episode AND and episode where this pony gets character development, the whole issue was swept under the rug.

I was merely saying that I have less to comment about the killing off gay characters argument because I am not gay. It is not my place.

How is it dismissive to have a differing point of view and different values? I did not dismiss her, I tried to continue with calm debate but she was the one who said STFU and "LOL NO". Those are attacks, not debate or discussion.

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[info]sepiamagpie
2012-02-27 05:45 pm UTC (link)
I'm gonna start straight off that I want her to keep the eye. The eye is neat.

But the rest of it, the voice, the name, no. That was unacceptable, and if they were pandering to the people about the name in the first place, I really truly doubt you would have ever gotten that episode.

Sorry for misunderstanding the gay thing, though. I took it to mean the whole issue.

I'm not gonna speak for Sandglass. But from the perspective of the guy who's already in a bad mood over this (too many rape threats for one morning) it looked a lot like... actually, nevermind. I'm sleepy and I'm just gonna fall over my own tongue. I did like what Zoom said though! His comments made sense to me.

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[info]roachspit
2012-02-27 05:58 pm UTC (link)
But we're adults and we're projecting our own sense of morals and right or wrong and things onto a kid's cartoon.

No. We're adults and we're applying our own sense of morals and right and wrong and things to the adults who create and/or watch a kid's cartoon. Cartoons do not just magically appear out of the void. Grownups make 'em. Some grownups watch 'em. The least they can do is create and/or engage in fandom in a non-hurtful way.

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(no subject) - [info]sepiamagpie, 2012-02-27 06:01 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]phosfate, 2012-02-27 06:04 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]roachspit, 2012-02-28 02:32 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]sepiamagpie, 2012-02-27 06:02 pm UTC

[info]sepiamagpie
2012-02-27 06:03 pm UTC (link)
Man, see how sleepy I am? I forgot to call you on half your shit.

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[info]ekaterinv
2012-02-27 10:39 pm UTC (link)
Because kids' cartoons are a moral-free zone! Wheee!

It's dismissive because you don't even watch the show or know the background, and yet you keep arguing and arguing and arguing your opinion with people who do. You are ignorant of the facts and yet you want your opinion to have the same weight as the opinions of people who are not. Your tone toward Sandglass was dismissive and condescending -- you can be "calm" and still be a total douche.

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[info]ekaterinv
2012-02-27 09:33 am UTC (link)
I'm physically disabled -- am I allowed to have an opinion about this? Or are you, as self-appointed arbiter of who's allowed to be upset by things, and what they're allowed to be upset by, not going to allow that?

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[info]anarchicq
2012-02-27 05:29 pm UTC (link)
I just don't want people telling me how I should be offended by something because I am disabled.

Obviously there are things that we don't do like call Obama the N word or his wife the C word, or ZQ a fag. These are people with feelings.

I use words like lame because it's about context. "That stupid shirt is so lame" is not a slight against you. It's a slight against a shirt.

Abled bodied people using the disabled bathroom stall? Fuck that chick.
Abled bodied people using the handicapped parking? Fuck that guy.
Abled bodied people sitting on disabled seats on the bus? When old or pregnant or disabled people stand? Fuck you, sitter.
Teenagers calling Lady Gaga's new single lame? Not offended.
A cute pony on a cartoon show that happens to have some unfortunate fanon background? Nope. Not offended.

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[info]ekaterinv
2012-02-27 10:32 pm UTC (link)
So because you're not offended, no one else has any right to be. Got it.

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(no subject) - [info]anarchicq, 2012-02-27 10:51 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]cyndra_falin, 2012-02-27 11:05 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]ekaterinv, 2012-02-28 12:06 am UTC

[info]kannaophelia
2012-02-28 01:29 am UTC (link)
I didn't actually see anyone telling you that you needed to be offended. I did see the implication that you should respect the feelings of people who have been offended and hurt, and who are concerned about children being offended and hurt.

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[info]mmanurere
2012-02-28 03:53 am UTC (link)
Obviously there are things that we don't do like call...ZQ a fag. These are people with feelings.

I use words like lame because it's about context. "That stupid shirt is so lame" is not a slight against you. It's a slight against a shirt.


Hey, look, here's an overlap I (gay person with a disability somewhere between "learning" and "developmental") can comment on!

If "lame" is a slight on the object being ridiculed rather than on the people who the object is being ridiculed by comparison to, then "that's so gay" is the same. And yet, in either case, I have to suppress a momentary urge towards some very, very uncivil language. Am I oversensitive for not casually accepting that people will insult people or things by likening them to me?

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(no subject) - [info]derryderrydown, 2012-02-28 04:49 pm UTC

[info]phosfate
2012-02-27 04:28 pm UTC (link)
Why don't you make a list of comm members who are allowed to be offended by this particular topic, and post it for us?

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[info]ecchaniz0r
2012-02-27 07:34 pm UTC (link)
Watch her she probably will.

She thought the critique of Avatar was equivalent to the subject matter of Schindler's List.

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(no subject) - [info]phosfate, 2012-02-27 07:37 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]mindset, 2012-02-27 08:17 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]phosfate, 2012-02-27 08:22 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]cmdr_zoom, 2012-02-28 12:43 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]phosfate, 2012-02-28 02:26 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]seiberwing, 2012-02-27 09:48 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]sandglass, 2012-02-27 10:16 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]spawn_of_kong, 2012-02-28 12:53 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]sandglass, 2012-02-28 06:47 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]lied_ohne_worte, 2012-02-28 09:58 pm UTC

[info]sorchar
2012-02-28 03:27 am UTC (link)
I call BS. Yeah, it's annoying when someone gets offended on someone else's behalf. But that is not the only reason someone would get offended. Maybe they just think something's offensive. You're allowed to be offended by something even if it's not targeting you. Really.

And in that vein, the notion that "being gay isn't a choice and isn't anyone's fault" is, actually, pretty offensive. It implies that it's something that blamed needs to be placed for.

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[info]anarchicq
2012-02-28 04:16 am UTC (link)
I am truly sorry if it came out that way. I just meant that if you're gay, you're gay. If you are trans, straight, bi who cares? There is no one to blame. Chikane asked if I also thought it was ok if a gay character is murdered because hey, at least there was a gay character. I said no, and that I would have a problem with the murderer.

I am very, very sorry that came out in a hurtful way.

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(no subject) - [info]moljn, 2012-02-29 10:21 am UTC

[info]zellieh
2012-02-29 12:38 pm UTC (link)
As someone who is 'part of that thing', I am here to tell you that that portrayal was offensive, the name was offensive, and I would far rather have nothing than have a portrayal that excuses hate crimes against disabled people as 'just a joke'. Because calling someone names and pointing and laughing at them for their disability is bullying, not harmless fun, and it is not okay.

Also, being referred to as a 'thing'? Ties into a long, ugly history of dehumanising people with disabilities in order to justify discrimination and hate crimes against us. It's offensive as hell. Don't do it again.

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[info]napalmnacey
2012-03-06 01:38 pm UTC (link)
Just an FYI: You shouldn't refer to gay people as "gays". It's dehumanising. Call them gay people, or the Queer Community, or GBLTQI people or something like that. There's plenty of choice. But don't call them "gays". I personally hate it, and I'm fairly sure most gay people feel the same way.

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