Lucky for me, I figured out a personal twenty- four hour rule relatively early on. If I get into something and it bothers me or is still upsetting me or pissing me off twenty-four hours later, I know something is wrong with me above and beyond whatever it is I'm arguing about on the internets.

I think I'm going to give that rule a try and see how it works for me. I usually wait until I'm at 'weeping openly in public' level before examining what's up.