Tumblr has also apparently decided that ravishment fantasies are the most evilest of evils -- and not just Tumblr. This is why I won't even go into anything that calls itself a feminist safe space any longer unless I or someone I know personally controls it. I have no idea how "feminist safe space" transmuted into "place where we scream at women (many of them victims of sexual abuse) for their sexual fantasies," but it disgusts me.

AND THIS WASN'T EVEN A RAVISHMENT FANTASY. Like, what, if we don't grapple with rape it will go away? What was the goal here? Just to yell and scream and feel self-righteous? Ugh, I am so frustrated.